Just ramble about this and that.

Haven't you had any interesting experience recently
or haven't you read anything impressive article in a
newspaper or a book?
Anyhow what's on your mind now?
Talking to yourself is also OK. 
 

>>960, I think you may be a religious nut. Is this possibly the case?

>>961
Atheism must be your religion

My girlfriend dumped me yesterday. I didnt have happiness before her. And i will not afterwards. I was always a bitter and apathetic individual. No direction, no cause, no real reason to live. When she came into my life, it was as if she had awakened my slumbering soul. She made me the person i wanted to be. My life was the brightest it had ever been. There was just a little bit in me and everything in her. And now, i have fallen back to my repressed dormant state. Like a turtle withdrawn into its shell. She said she was doing it for my sake. Because if i stayed with her, that i would get hurt. That i was always going out of my way to sacrifice myself for her. But the truth is, she couldnt have hurt me more than when she gave her "lets just be friends" speech. She said that she hopes that i find someone better than her someday. I dont understand. I always tried to make her happy. She said thats part of the reason why she wanted us to part. But why? Why cant two people who love each other be together? Why did she have to start it when she was going to end it? So now i am seeking refuge in the annonymity of the internet to thrust out my emo feelings so that all of you hounds can feast on my life story and tear me apart. Perhaps you all think im the typical heartbroken guy. There is one everyday. Perhaps you laugh at my useless existence. Perhaps you think me stupid for putting all my life on this girl. Go on. I probably wont be around to read the replies.

1000GET

Many women are very stupid,and so never fall in love with good men. They tend to fall in love with a little bad man, or man with good words. Women are like children. I think of my girlfriend as a child. She is very childish, emotional, in a word, foolish. But I accept her foolishness. That's why I can get along with her. Women are kids. To think so is the only way for us to get along with women.

>>962
If atheism is a religion, then health is a disease.

I'm atheist, and I partly agree with >>960 BTW.

>>965
Truth. The average girl matures at 30. Or later.

Truth. The average girl matures at 30. Or later.
Which by then they don't look at hot. Why can't girls ever go for the nice guy instead of the guy who is cool to them. Reality is so cruel to nice guys.

>>967
Exactly. Girls pee their pants for jerks and fuckos who will treat them like shit. In fact, the more poorly they treat them, the more girls love them back and cry like children. Of course, it's nice guys' shoulders what they cry on, but they'll never realize this. Nice guys are "just friends", and will never be anything else because they aren't as kewl as street jerks. And you can tell the second they call you "friend" your chances of hitting them are voided: girls' minds have two completely different, separate working sets - "friends" and "love interests", which they'll never mix for whatever retarded reason. In fact, one would think your sweetheart is also your best friend, otherwise you're screwed, but no; girls have "kewl Brad" for getting drunk at pubs and being a whore, and "best friend to cry on his shoulders when kewl Brad is bad".

>girls' minds have two completely different, separate working sets - "friends" and "love interests"
QFT

One girl I went after who was also a good friend screamed at me that I shoudn't ever have feelings for her or even think to be in a relationship with her because I was her friend. I mean how the fuck am I to know if I can be in a good serious relationship with a girl if I don't try to be her friend first. I am sad though cos I still help her more than her bf.

Some reasons I hear why most girls have these different mindsets is because they want to avoid that "awkward" situation if the relationship goes bad.

And that utter BS to me as a guy. Thats like counting your eggs before they hatch. Thats like already thinking AHEAD of the relationship.

>> Continuation
And thats utter BS to me as a guy. Thats like counting your eggs before they hatch. Thats like already thinking AHEAD of the relationship before it even happened.

Most of the time girls are not willing to jump the next step. And they complain about guys not committing. Only guys that don't commit are those who are playboys.

This is why all of 4chan should go gay.

Bah, you guys have to understand.  Romance does tend to be about obtaining a prize.  The more distant and challenging the goal, the more a woman will see the goal as appealing.  So quit whining about them not wanting the nice guy and be the asshole.  Can't have it both ways.

>>969
>I shoudn't ever have feelings for her or even think to be in a relationship with her because I was her friend
Lol, true... That happened to me too. Then they wonder why we can't understand them.

>I mean how the fuck am I to know if I can be in a good serious relationship with a girl if I don't try to be her friend first.
Exactly. But girls think otherwise. They want to fuck the biggest jerk in town, his personality be damned. Then they'll go and say we guys are shallow.

>I am sad though cos I still help her more than her bf.
I feel for you man. I was in your situation, and I think most nice guys are/were/will be. I overcame it by not-caring, but that's hard to do since you're nice.

>>970
>Most of the time girls are not willing to jump the next step. And they complain about guys not committing.
Fucking true. Girls say guys care only for looks, don't like commitement, much less marriage, etc., but nothing could be farthest from the truth. Actually, they are the ones who do all that.

>Only guys that don't commit are those who are playboys.
And these are the guys they'll all go after. Then they'll tell us we're this and that.

>>973
We still shoudl give the benefit of the doubt that the girl does not want to be a in a relationship because she isnt attracted to the guy in the first place.

Even if that was the reason in my situation, I have had with girls  giving the excuse "oh you are friend, can't do so n so". Just say the damn truth that you don't the way I look or something etc etc. Of course girls want to be "nice" and have this "peaceful" situation so they use the safest excuse. Which is the lamest.

>>972
>Romance does tend to be about obtaining a prize.
WTF. Romance is about love, not fucking your partner. I hate it how girls think of it as a game, count the times you call them and the times they call you, test you, etc. And the more love you show for them, the worse they'll treat you, while they'll be all crazy for the drunken jerks who treat them like dirt. This is all bullshit.

Do you even have a fucking idea about what's love? Yeah, it sounds all gay for a guy having to explain it, but I've found guys are actually more sensitive and loving than girls.

If I'm in love with someone, first I don't want to hurt her, and second, being loved back would be a bliss. You girls take guys' feelings as a game, and assfuck us really hard.

>quit whining about them not wanting the nice guy and be the asshole.
What if I don't want to be an asshole? What if I'm openly offering what I can? I can't be an asshole to a girl I like/love. And if I don't like her, I'm not interested on laying her, and I don't enjoy being an asshole either. Last time I checked, being a fucking jerk was bad.

What's sad is I'm commited, girls say I'm good looking, and I'm not short on money (another resource girls seem to care for more than being loved); yet I'm not into anything because I want to know them beforehand, and I don't enjoy being a stupid fuck.

That's why I decided to... be gay! Just kidding, lol. What I decided is to not give two tenths of a rat's ass for you, girls. Enjoy being fucked/raped by your favorite jerks, I'm out of this shit; call me once you've matured (and as long as you haven't gotten AIDS), kthxbye.

>> Continuation
Whats lamer is when the girl expects you to stop having feelings for her immediatly. DO they think feelings can be turned off with a switch??

Although I have been debating with myself if it is ever possible to have feelings for a girl, never show it but still be a good friend to her.

Oops >>976 is a continuation of >>974

>>976
>DO they think feelings can be turned off with a switch??
Apparently they think so (this happened to me too); I guess their feelings are so shallow and simple they think ours are likewise. This is one of the reasons why I gave up on it. What they can feel is nowhere as near as what I can feel for them, so I managed to block my desires and consider them unworthy of love.

>>978
Thats what one of my friends did in the end after numerous heartbreaks. Just decided to not give a damn and let the girls go after him instead while he just sits back. Problem is that unless you were the most attractive guy in the universe, I feel its gonna really hard to find that special someone.

I on the other hand say well I don't try to see every girl as some pussy to fuck. I just see a girl as another potential friend. And if stuff happens like a relationship and we are all happy. If not at least I have another friend.

>>979
>unless you were the most attractive guy in the universe, I feel its gonna really hard to find that special someone
Yeah, I know I might end up alone, but I've accepted it. I'm unable to find this special one, and all the times I tried, it was not worth. I assume this special one may not exist.

>I don't try to see every girl as some pussy to fuck. I just see a girl as another potential friend. And if stuff happens like a relationship and we are all happy.
That's what I'd like to do, but the "friend->love" strategy won't work with these girls, unfortunately. I hope you find an exception to the rule, though; I really do, because I was in your situation and I know how that feels. Good luck, man!

>>980
Sometimes I feel girls want male friends just as "bodyguards" of sort.

>>963
Sorry to hear that man especially the part about
>>"That i was always going out of my way to sacrifice myself for her"

I feel most girls are like this. You do too little they whine. You do too much or go out of your way, well a percentage will be happy but most of them would still not be happy about it as well.

I agree with >>971.
Everyone do me! :D
come on! yaranaika? (for the japs)

>>975
That's actually the attitude I was talking about.  Disinterest in a female eventually fosters feelings of inadequacy, leading to a resting potential at which any positive interaction is seen as a sociologyical victory for said female.  I didn't really want to get all psychological up there, but since you're of this calibre, you'll understand that while a romantic person may see courtship as the establishment of romantic love, in actuality the exchange is perceived by the other party as a series of interactions to increase one's standing in another's perception.  The point is not to be openly hostile, but rather be consistently nonchalant.

Dropping down a level here, you guys have read Pride and Prejudice, right?  Even the intelligent females will go after complete assholes despite their distaste for the archetype.  The dynamic evolution of the relationship seems to be some sort of ideological boon for females.


>>978
>>979
I did just that as well.  Might as well be the arrogant playboy than the angsting sweetheart.  Why should I have to make constant concessions to receive nothing where equal treatment of all peoples does a much better job?

>>980
There is -no- such thing as a special someone.  Predestination, soulmates, all that crap is bull to feed the fires.  If two compatible people court and find a beneficial and rewarding relationship, it can result in a big success.  The thing is, failures are not fatal in love.  Keep trying, it's just statistics, you're guarenteed a hit.  Unless you're Snacks.  Then you're only compatible with yourself.


>>982
Then said girl isn't a very good girlfriend.  She's got to learn to make some concessions on her end to make sure they meet halfway.

>>984
>Why should I have to make constant concessions to receive nothing where equal treatment of all peoples does a much better job?

I used to do this without minding it, as I thought love is unilateral and unconditional, and I felt happy doing so. I think I even wanted to have somebody to give it all for. Turns out I was a moron. I did a lot, and got very little in return. No girl is worthy of this sweet treatment. It's sad I had to give up on my old, noble self, but girls make these altruist, honorable intentions impossible. Right now I won't lift a finger if I'm not getting or have got an appropiate reward of some nature.

>>985

Chivalry is dead.  Because women killed it.

>>985
Thats why when it came to girls, I won't really cave in to their demands. But sometimes when I was ever that that one girl who I really cared for than I would go back to my unconditional devotion for.

FOr example, there was a situation when if I hadn't given my full 100% unconditionally in helping that girl I cared for, she would had been in deep shit. Eventhough I wasn't her bf, I offered my help to her. In the end, I got nothing. Well just a grateful thank you and thats it. I did feel a bit ticked off but then the only thing holding me back was that I wouldn't had been able to live with myself with I saw her suffering. So I guess my reward was to see her happy. The reality of love is sometimes that way I guess.

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