>>969
>I shoudn't ever have feelings for her or even think to be in a relationship with her because I was her friend
Lol, true... That happened to me too. Then they wonder why we can't understand them.
>I mean how the fuck am I to know if I can be in a good serious relationship with a girl if I don't try to be her friend first.
Exactly. But girls think otherwise. They want to fuck the biggest jerk in town, his personality be damned. Then they'll go and say we guys are shallow.
>I am sad though cos I still help her more than her bf.
I feel for you man. I was in your situation, and I think most nice guys are/were/will be. I overcame it by not-caring, but that's hard to do since you're nice.
>>970
>Most of the time girls are not willing to jump the next step. And they complain about guys not committing.
Fucking true. Girls say guys care only for looks, don't like commitement, much less marriage, etc., but nothing could be farthest from the truth. Actually, they are the ones who do all that.
>Only guys that don't commit are those who are playboys.
And these are the guys they'll all go after. Then they'll tell us we're this and that.