Just ramble about this and that.

Haven't you had any interesting experience recently
or haven't you read anything impressive article in a
newspaper or a book?
Anyhow what's on your mind now?
Talking to yourself is also OK. 
 

>girls' minds have two completely different, separate working sets - "friends" and "love interests"
QFT

One girl I went after who was also a good friend screamed at me that I shoudn't ever have feelings for her or even think to be in a relationship with her because I was her friend. I mean how the fuck am I to know if I can be in a good serious relationship with a girl if I don't try to be her friend first. I am sad though cos I still help her more than her bf.

Some reasons I hear why most girls have these different mindsets is because they want to avoid that "awkward" situation if the relationship goes bad.

And that utter BS to me as a guy. Thats like counting your eggs before they hatch. Thats like already thinking AHEAD of the relationship.