Just ramble about this and that.

Haven't you had any interesting experience recently
or haven't you read anything impressive article in a
newspaper or a book?
Anyhow what's on your mind now?
Talking to yourself is also OK. 
 

>>973
We still shoudl give the benefit of the doubt that the girl does not want to be a in a relationship because she isnt attracted to the guy in the first place.

Even if that was the reason in my situation, I have had with girls  giving the excuse "oh you are friend, can't do so n so". Just say the damn truth that you don't the way I look or something etc etc. Of course girls want to be "nice" and have this "peaceful" situation so they use the safest excuse. Which is the lamest.