Just ramble about this and that.

Haven't you had any interesting experience recently
or haven't you read anything impressive article in a
newspaper or a book?
Anyhow what's on your mind now?
Talking to yourself is also OK. 
 

Bah, you guys have to understand.  Romance does tend to be about obtaining a prize.  The more distant and challenging the goal, the more a woman will see the goal as appealing.  So quit whining about them not wanting the nice guy and be the asshole.  Can't have it both ways.