Best tips to bring a woman to orgasm

So, tonight I'm probably going to do it for the first time (lol, virgin, I know I know) but I figured some dudes around here might actually have some experience in this area. So what are your best tips to bring her to an orgasm? How about giving her more than one?

From what little I know I figure I'll do alright, but I like hearing from actual real people (on teh interwebz!) *cough* so yeah. How do I know if she's faking it? Any way to tell? Can women really keep going from one orgasm to the next, like by us  doing the same routine? Is one position enough to go all the way  at least once or do you generally have to use more than one?

How about oral, do they really like it only on their clit and not inside that much? Do you agree that women can reach the big O from almost any kind of stimulation? Some men claim to be able to do that with just their nipples.

Bonus question: Do you think the world would be a better place if women got off as quickly as us guys do? I think that'd be freakin awesome if we could give them one in minutes without much work at all. I'd love to be able to pleasure a woman any time, anywhere like that.

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Rip her head off and fuck her throat. LOL.

hmm, perfect practice makes perfect

stick it in her pooper

In before stick- oh wait.

Jesus Christ do any of you geeks get laid??? ok well, i'll try to actually answer your ?'s to the best of my ability,

1. Every woman is different so dont think for one second that, something that works with one will work on another.
2. Some women fake better than others (because some can act better than others), generally it is very hard to tell, something i saw a few years ago on one of the discovery channels late at night that i've personally used and has worked for me. Is right after she orgasm's kiss her to see if her lips are cold. I forget actually what the cause of it is, but they say women's lips get cold after an orgasm so thats what i always check for.
3.Yes women can orgasm and orgasm and orgasm, over, over and over again. If your able to handle it (without orgasming yourself). Also if your good enough you can get them to multiple orgasm, but like i said every woman is different. Some you just stick it in and they practically are ready to orgasm, others you have work very hard for it. IE: While your fucking her, change pace every once in a while, so that you keep her guessing and use one of your hands to rub her clit at the same time.
4. One position is plenty, depending on your dick... (not to hurt anyones feelings here) but if your little man is of smaller stature then getting her doggy style or having her on top, you'll get better penetration, thus satisfying her better. If your not of smaller stature (less than 6 inches long) then positioning doesnt matter. People only change positions 1. Because they're getting tired of doing the same thing or 2. Its a fuckin porno and they're paid to change position 17 times in 30 minutes. It's not needed.
5. The oral question...well like i've said, depends on the girl some like clitoral stimulation more than vaginal and others, like it the other way around. Best bet IMO, use your tongue on her clit and use 2 fingers vaginally. Speed, and style of how you do it again depends on the girl. I would say though if you've watched enough porn, just try and move your tongue like the guys do, they're technique is generally what is sought after by women. IE fast flicking and then long hard licks. Just make sure you move her "hood" out of the way if needed because some girl's hood's cover they're clit, and they wont get all of the sensation. to do that place your hand flat on her lower abdomen and slightly pull up using your hand to kinda stretch her labia's a bit. That'll get that hood right outta the way for ya.
6. Nipple Stimuation....another one of those, depends on the girl thing, I had a g/f that it didnt do anything for, my current g/f practically wants me to rip her tits off she loves it so much. So there is really no right or wrong answer there, just try it out and she how she reacts. IE- play/suck on them while fucking her. You should be able to tell if she likes it or not, by her reaction or if you stop playing with them.
7. as for the bonus question, i think that it would probably save alot of relationships and marriages because most guys dont take the time to try and please the woman they are with, they usually just get in, get off and get out. but if your with a girl for a while you'll find out the little quirks (if your looking for them) that'll get her off and you can get them off in minutes or even seconds. Yet again one of those "depends on the girl thing" because some no matter what you do, you still have to work very hard to get them off. It would be very nice if they all just got off, but then after a while it would get boring because then it wouldnt take any skill and well i personally like the challenge when it presents itself.

lastly, if this is going to be your first time, jack off a few of times beforehand if possible, so your less sensitive (duh!) because most likely your going to over excite yourself and you wont last very long at all. just FYI ;) ok well i hoped that helped a little, i dont consider myself an expert at all, i've only been with 18 women and im a father of a one year old, so believe me sex isnt all fun and games, just make sure you protect yourself. I just know we all look at so much fuckin pr0n that sometimes we forget what sex is actually for, to pro-create and you dont want to learn the hard lesson like i did, but i love my daughter and i wouldnt change anything now for the world other than wish it had happened later in my life.

Protip#1: Make sure it is an anime woman, they orgasm like nothing else.

If they're not crying then it's fake.

Do you find that larger breasted women are less sensitive?  Was the "tit ripping" girl about a C cup, or have there been DDs with that much sensitivity?

>>7 is a manwhore. Don't listen to him or you won't stick to your relationship at all.

>>1 is a troll. >>7 fell right into his tarp.

No larger breasted women can be just as sensitive as smaller. the "tit ripping" girlfriend of mine has 36 C's but one of my ex's was a 36 D and she was very sensitive also. but there have been others that could give a shit less if i played with their breasts during sex

and no im not a manwhore, i just like sex...rofl like the rest of us, and i've got a good job and a nice car which i guess attracts women...lmao

>>14
Are you a polygamist? If not, then you're a manwhore.

>>15
polygamist? wtf does that have to do with anything? 18 is not at all a high number most of my friends have slept with over 30 women if anything they would be the manwhores, but fuck it if 18 makes me a manwhore then i guess wtf ever, like i care, just means i've gotten laid more than you. Which isnt necessarily a good thing considering most likely you dont have a kid with a girl thats fucked in the head, that you have to deal with legally now for the next 17 years.

>>16
No, it means you slept with more women more than me. I've slept with my(ONE) woman plenty of times thx.

>>17

Loyalty ftw.

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>>19
ow!

>>7
>>One position is plenty, depending on your dick... (not to hurt anyones feelings here) but if your little man is of smaller stature then consider suicide.

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Man, the bonus question is fucking hilarious, I was once with a girl I could get off in literally under a minute, it differs, but dont think women are fucking superior in the sexual department because they're not, you guys act asif having sex is fucking rocket science, it's not, aslong as you're not a total fucking nark, you'll have no problems at all.

Pussies, the lot of you.

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>>1
just bang her till you shoot, and if she hasn't gotten off yet, then go down on her

While the cum is still inside her?

>>22 Exactly, it differs on every woman. Its not rocket science, basically if your fuckin her, to get HER off then your fine, if your fuckin her to get yourself off, then your gonna suck for her. Thats the long and short of it, and considering i guess you ppl consider me a manwhore now, i guess i have enough experience to say it. (Considering i've asked plenty of girls about it, rofl i was the resident Dr. Drew in High School)

>>24 Thats fuckin gross, why do you guys have this thing for your own cum on these boards? Makes no sense to me, cum is for somewhere on a womans body/ or inside of it, or a towel if your in the unfortunate situation of not have a female present. Not so that you can snowball yourself. But i guess if thats your thing, more power to ya.

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>>27 GTFO! Troll

Dude, thanks for all the answers guys. She was... surprisingly different than I expected. So it left me with some new questions.

I thought that... A. The clit was, in almost all cases, very sensitive. Hers hardly was at all. Has this been anyone else's experience? I was too careful, classic newbie mistake, right? Or is careful better at first?
B. Female orgasms last long? Hers were very quick. She wanted me back in within seconds. Is this natural as well? pr0n seems to have corrupted my fragile little mind </south park reference>
C. Are all girls wider the deeper you go in? It was like a bottle, tight at the opening and then larger inside.
D. Why do they tighten up at times? My fingers were squished like hell, it was hard to use two most times, but she took my 8 inch without much trouble (yes yes, I know it sounds like I'm lying)
E. Aren't nipples supposed to be hard(ish)? Hers were incredibly soft.

>>22
My girl wasn't much work at all, thing is, I'm concerned about getting stuck with a girl that is disatisfied somehow (especially if she doesn't come right out and tell me) and it ends up affecting the relationship. If they're notoriously hard to get off like some people claim then I wish they were easy like us guys. I mean hell, I enjoy it every single time, every day if I go for it and I don't get bored of it. Why can't they be the same way?

>>24 and >>26
Condoms work well to catch the stuff. That solves that problem right there.

>>29
A. No not in all cases, if your soft with it and she isn't responding very much to it then try a bit harder until she does respond but she may just like vaginal stimulation more which means dont worry to much about the clit.
B. Another thing that depends on the girl, some are long some are quick but FYI, instead of just bringing her to orgasm right away, slow down a bit and bring her back down from it, then get her close again but before she does slow down again, then after you've gotten her close a few times then take her all the way. That'll usually bring out a very large orgasm in any woman. Same thing applies for us guys, if we get ourselves close a few times then orgasm its much more powerful. Easiest way to try it out of course it to do it while jacking off. Just get yourself close a few times without orgasming then orgasm. Guarantee it'll be hella stronger. I usually like to fuck them straight through their orgasm not pulling out or anything, especially going very fast and very hard through it because it makes it better for her in most cases.
C. lol, that is known as a kegel muscle as men we have the same thing basically (you know when you got to pee but you got to hold it? That is using the kegel muscle or when you got a hardon and you make your dick do the jumping dance, its the same principle), they can tighten and loosen it however they want, some girls have a stronger one then others so just depends on how much they excersice it. Some girls do kegel excercises everyday to keep themselves very tight and it works great ;) Usually when they tighten up that is a good thing because it means your doing good and your getting them close to an orgasm. Its a double-edged sword for your dick though, it feels better but it also makes you want to orgasm more, so thats an area where only practice will get you through those situations without orgasming yourself, or using your million dollar spot (press on your gouch when your getting close to an orgasm and you'll come back from it without having to slow down, best bet is to practice using it while jacking off, because if you do it to much you can make yourself lose a hard-on and well im sure that you dont want that to happen during sex, lol.)
E. Nipples get hard for two reasons, they're cold or they're being stimulated, IE: your playing with them. Its an automatic reaction for female nipples to harden when they are stimulated because tits are designed to be used for newborn babies for food. If the nipple doesnt get hard, newborns usually wont be able to find the nipple, which does happen for some women  and then they are forced to pump and bottle feed. SO ANYWAYS enough of the anatomy lesson, if they're not cold or not being stimulated correctly then they will be soft, nothing to worry about, and like was talked about above some girls dont get turned on by their tits being played with. anything else? lol...

O and BTW congrats on the losing of your virginity :))

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>>30
Again, thanks man. I know my questions are odd, but it was kind of frustrating since she hardly said anything. I asked her stuff and she just kind of was quiet. I had to guess a lot by her reactions. And I suppose I'm more used to being with someone who's totally talkative and open. The girl I was close to for 3 years was much more vocal about things. I bet she would have been very different.

About B., she yanked me back in right away so I assume it was what she wanted :D But yeah, I'll try the slower build up thing sometime. She seemed to like it rapid, and eventually she seemed pretty satisfied.

Here's a funny question for you. I'm betting she said some stuff just for fun, but she said she got off 6 times. Does that seem reasonable for a short amount of time? It only seemed like one time she was really having one.

Gosh, I feel like such a newb. But thanks, >>31. It's not all that it's cracked up to be (I say this to all who are still virgins), but it was certainly fun.

>>29
I actually like a dick inside me when I come, and to keep doing. You asked a while ago if you should switch positions... not when she's almost about to come, but doing different things is sometimes good. Also the clit can be sensitive sometimes and not as sensitive other times. Those were some really good questions, hope you're having fun and congrats!

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>>36
no wai man. Gaia could never be this educational. Too many girly boys and girly girls screaming "ZOMG I LOOKED AT HIS WEE WEE AM I PREG NOW????!!!11"

>>33

Ok well i guess if this continues, i'll start posting with my nickname so you guys know it is me, i posted >>7 >>13 >>14 >>16 >>30 and >>31, ok now that's outta the way, about your question in >>33, How short of a time are we talking here? 15 Minutes? 30 Minutes? Did she act like you got her off when you went down on her? It is possible to have that happen it just depends on how good you are, and whether or not she was into it. You have to realize that women are emotional creatures. If they're not into sex emotionally 9 times out of 10 they're not going to cum. Thats why most of the Pr0n we watch, the girl doesnt cum, cuz they're not emotionally attached to the guy thats fuckin them. I know that with one of my ex's that was hella easy to get off, i got her off 9 times within about an hour and a half, now that wasnt just straight fucking, it was cunnilingus and intercourse.

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>>39 uhh, who the fuck cares about gaia? what are you 14?

>>40
A 14 year old troll. Who sucks at internet no less.

>>38
Don't worry about the name/number mix up. It happens. What you said though was more reassuring. I didn't know they could have orgasms so quickly like that. I had assumed that one for them is a huge deal and it takes some time to come back down or start wanting more again.

Oh well, more assumptions that don't get me anywhere. I say I need more practice!

well considering >>40 is me, it would be hard for me to be 14. I'm 21, anyways

>>42 Ya they can, it can actually be a bit frightening to think how much they can orgasm over and over again without it wearing them out, which is why i mentioned the whole "get her close a few times then make her cum" THAT will wear her the fuck out or piss her off depending (some girls HATE being teased, but i still do it anyway because it takes the control away from the girl and she cant do anything about it, but believe me it'll wear her ass out, if you get her close a bunch of times then make her cum. It'll be so powerful she'll most likely be climbing up the wall from it.

>>43
Sounds like a plan. Now if only I could get her to be more talkative about it. Or get back with the girl I used to be with. Then I'd have a better chance of figuring out what's going on with the female body.

>>44 Talkative about what? You mean just being more vocal during the act in general? or afterwards when to talk to her about what she liked/or didnt like? I just tell a girl that im encouragable... so if i dont get any response back during the act well then i'll stop what im doing a change until i do. Or in some cases if she just wants to not say anything at all or be completely quiet then i'll just stop. but thankfully that hasn't happened to me yet but i have heard of girls that are like that

I wouldn't take tips from anonymous trolls on the internet, especially not the population of anonymous trolls from 4chan.

Your best choice is to compare the possible number of orifices she will let you use, to the number of orifices you're going to use. Then find the actual orifices, discluding ones that smell like fish or talk too much, leaving perhaps but one orifice. Conclude that this is indeed her pooper, and stick it in.

>>46 yet you post as anonymous...so...gtfo...idiot

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>>48 your stupid....gtfo

LANZER

>>50
GAIA IS A SHITTY COMMERCIAL MYSPACE/NEOPETS CROSSOVER.

STFU.

>>50 Exactly dumbass

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>>53 Good now go away faggot

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anyways BTT, anymore questions?

>>50 Holy Hell, you're an idiot.

I'd expect to see this sort of topic over at Gaia, which is inhabited by 13 year old virgins. Oh well, losers on the internet lolol

>>45
She just didn't talk much while we were into it. Afterwards she was just smiley and talked about other stuff. She seemed happy enough, but it was awkward at the time.

My guess is we should talk about it more beforehand, we just kinda went for it... Anyhow, I think that answers my questions for now. Thanks.

By the way, it's odd that more guys didn't have something to share. Too bad. Reading stuff like this used to totally wet my appetite for it.

>>59 Unfortunately i dont think most of the ppl that look through these boards have much of a life other than a keyboard and jpgs. So there wouldnt be very many people that actually know much about sex other than what they're hand has given them. I would say, if you want her more vocal during, then tell her, and if she isnt complying with your request then stop right in the middle of it, which she wont like so then she'll start to give you what you want. Men train Women just as much as Women train Men, they just like to think they train us more. Which as a man myself i highly beg to differ. BTW this thread is starting to die so i guess if anymore of you have questions, and you dont think your to good for myspace then hit me up, www.myspace.com/fast95dodge and dont be all immature about the fact that i have one ok? It works for me.

>>58 Yes, we just know that so many thirdteen year-olds are deprived of their virginity because they do not go to a site that has over 700000000 posts.

so im at the camp and im with the people im usualy with and they have there 9 year old neighbor with them and she looks realy bored so i go and talk to her and it truns out she's like a little horny slut so she and i start hanging out then she asks to see my PENIS so i show it to her and the people she is with "find out" and tell me iv "crossed the line", "to old to whip out my PENIS" and "havnt known her long enuff to play with PENIS in front of her" long story short i desided to leave early because i got so depressed and sick or the world i wanted to kill my self im still realy depressed because she was like the little sister i never had but what i realy want to know is what the hell is the world coming to that your not aloud to touch your PENIS with a freind who is younger than you! btw im 18

>>58 >>61 I dont know much about that site for one and two, if your 13 your most likely not going to get laid anyways. Im not saying it doesnt happen, but most likely it wont

>>62 She's 9 and your 18...your twice her age you sick fuck!! If she was 16 i could see it, maybe possibly even if she was 15, but you need some professional help, before you rape some little girl and take away her innocence. You need to be found and shot, or go ahead, do the world a favor and kill yourself.

4chan is 18+ only. Kids GTFO

>>64 dont we all wish.

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>>66
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>>67
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