Best tips to bring a woman to orgasm

So, tonight I'm probably going to do it for the first time (lol, virgin, I know I know) but I figured some dudes around here might actually have some experience in this area. So what are your best tips to bring her to an orgasm? How about giving her more than one?

From what little I know I figure I'll do alright, but I like hearing from actual real people (on teh interwebz!) *cough* so yeah. How do I know if she's faking it? Any way to tell? Can women really keep going from one orgasm to the next, like by us  doing the same routine? Is one position enough to go all the way  at least once or do you generally have to use more than one?

How about oral, do they really like it only on their clit and not inside that much? Do you agree that women can reach the big O from almost any kind of stimulation? Some men claim to be able to do that with just their nipples.

Bonus question: Do you think the world would be a better place if women got off as quickly as us guys do? I think that'd be freakin awesome if we could give them one in minutes without much work at all. I'd love to be able to pleasure a woman any time, anywhere like that.

Dude, thanks for all the answers guys. She was... surprisingly different than I expected. So it left me with some new questions.

I thought that... A. The clit was, in almost all cases, very sensitive. Hers hardly was at all. Has this been anyone else's experience? I was too careful, classic newbie mistake, right? Or is careful better at first?
B. Female orgasms last long? Hers were very quick. She wanted me back in within seconds. Is this natural as well? pr0n seems to have corrupted my fragile little mind </south park reference>
C. Are all girls wider the deeper you go in? It was like a bottle, tight at the opening and then larger inside.
D. Why do they tighten up at times? My fingers were squished like hell, it was hard to use two most times, but she took my 8 inch without much trouble (yes yes, I know it sounds like I'm lying)
E. Aren't nipples supposed to be hard(ish)? Hers were incredibly soft.

>>22
My girl wasn't much work at all, thing is, I'm concerned about getting stuck with a girl that is disatisfied somehow (especially if she doesn't come right out and tell me) and it ends up affecting the relationship. If they're notoriously hard to get off like some people claim then I wish they were easy like us guys. I mean hell, I enjoy it every single time, every day if I go for it and I don't get bored of it. Why can't they be the same way?

>>24 and >>26
Condoms work well to catch the stuff. That solves that problem right there.