Best tips to bring a woman to orgasm

So, tonight I'm probably going to do it for the first time (lol, virgin, I know I know) but I figured some dudes around here might actually have some experience in this area. So what are your best tips to bring her to an orgasm? How about giving her more than one?

From what little I know I figure I'll do alright, but I like hearing from actual real people (on teh interwebz!) *cough* so yeah. How do I know if she's faking it? Any way to tell? Can women really keep going from one orgasm to the next, like by us  doing the same routine? Is one position enough to go all the way  at least once or do you generally have to use more than one?

How about oral, do they really like it only on their clit and not inside that much? Do you agree that women can reach the big O from almost any kind of stimulation? Some men claim to be able to do that with just their nipples.

Bonus question: Do you think the world would be a better place if women got off as quickly as us guys do? I think that'd be freakin awesome if we could give them one in minutes without much work at all. I'd love to be able to pleasure a woman any time, anywhere like that.

Jesus Christ do any of you geeks get laid??? ok well, i'll try to actually answer your ?'s to the best of my ability,

1. Every woman is different so dont think for one second that, something that works with one will work on another.
2. Some women fake better than others (because some can act better than others), generally it is very hard to tell, something i saw a few years ago on one of the discovery channels late at night that i've personally used and has worked for me. Is right after she orgasm's kiss her to see if her lips are cold. I forget actually what the cause of it is, but they say women's lips get cold after an orgasm so thats what i always check for.
3.Yes women can orgasm and orgasm and orgasm, over, over and over again. If your able to handle it (without orgasming yourself). Also if your good enough you can get them to multiple orgasm, but like i said every woman is different. Some you just stick it in and they practically are ready to orgasm, others you have work very hard for it. IE: While your fucking her, change pace every once in a while, so that you keep her guessing and use one of your hands to rub her clit at the same time.
4. One position is plenty, depending on your dick... (not to hurt anyones feelings here) but if your little man is of smaller stature then getting her doggy style or having her on top, you'll get better penetration, thus satisfying her better. If your not of smaller stature (less than 6 inches long) then positioning doesnt matter. People only change positions 1. Because they're getting tired of doing the same thing or 2. Its a fuckin porno and they're paid to change position 17 times in 30 minutes. It's not needed.
5. The oral question...well like i've said, depends on the girl some like clitoral stimulation more than vaginal and others, like it the other way around. Best bet IMO, use your tongue on her clit and use 2 fingers vaginally. Speed, and style of how you do it again depends on the girl. I would say though if you've watched enough porn, just try and move your tongue like the guys do, they're technique is generally what is sought after by women. IE fast flicking and then long hard licks. Just make sure you move her "hood" out of the way if needed because some girl's hood's cover they're clit, and they wont get all of the sensation. to do that place your hand flat on her lower abdomen and slightly pull up using your hand to kinda stretch her labia's a bit. That'll get that hood right outta the way for ya.
6. Nipple Stimuation....another one of those, depends on the girl thing, I had a g/f that it didnt do anything for, my current g/f practically wants me to rip her tits off she loves it so much. So there is really no right or wrong answer there, just try it out and she how she reacts. IE- play/suck on them while fucking her. You should be able to tell if she likes it or not, by her reaction or if you stop playing with them.
7. as for the bonus question, i think that it would probably save alot of relationships and marriages because most guys dont take the time to try and please the woman they are with, they usually just get in, get off and get out. but if your with a girl for a while you'll find out the little quirks (if your looking for them) that'll get her off and you can get them off in minutes or even seconds. Yet again one of those "depends on the girl thing" because some no matter what you do, you still have to work very hard to get them off. It would be very nice if they all just got off, but then after a while it would get boring because then it wouldnt take any skill and well i personally like the challenge when it presents itself.

lastly, if this is going to be your first time, jack off a few of times beforehand if possible, so your less sensitive (duh!) because most likely your going to over excite yourself and you wont last very long at all. just FYI ;) ok well i hoped that helped a little, i dont consider myself an expert at all, i've only been with 18 women and im a father of a one year old, so believe me sex isnt all fun and games, just make sure you protect yourself. I just know we all look at so much fuckin pr0n that sometimes we forget what sex is actually for, to pro-create and you dont want to learn the hard lesson like i did, but i love my daughter and i wouldnt change anything now for the world other than wish it had happened later in my life.