i think the ideal man is one that never goes out, shuns parties and camps out on the internet. an outcast, outsider, alienated individual. spends christmas and new years alone in his room with a favourite dvd. but he is not bitter, he simply refuses to play the social game..
It's hard to be not bitter, because it's bitter to be hard...
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Anonymous2006-06-27 2:34
>>3
when you really think about it, there's nothing particularly great about those guys who are smooth talkers and social butterflies. usually they care more about their image than actually forging bonds with other people. they go to clubs and say their meaningless hellos to the 39083728943 friends and acquaintances, get drunk and so forth..
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Anonymous2006-06-27 2:41
i think the ideal woman is one that never goes out, shuns parties and camps out on the internet. an outcast, outsider, alienated individual. spends christmas and new years alone in his room with a favourite dvd. but he is not bitter, he simply refuses to play the social game..
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Anonymous2006-06-27 2:45
>>5
You people are looking at things in extremes.
<super invert> vs. <super extravert>
There is actually a middle ground. People who have good social habbits, but aren't trying to, "be somebody." People who also enjoy playing video games and doing other nerdy things.
No one should ever aspire to be either of the things >>1-5 mentioned.
Living in your room and refusing to interact with people is unhealthy and provides your with no life experience and no real memories.
Being a social whore is a busy, expensive life that's all flash with no bang, and in most cases very harmful to your liver.
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Anonymous2006-06-27 2:51
>>7
Memories ? WHAT IS A MEMORY !!!? My LSD trips provide all the memories I need. Real people are boring compared to what/who my confused brain can generate.
also i was exaggerating a little, but people of any gender who constantly feel the need to be out and be seen sadden me. there is absolutely nothing wrong with sitting alone doing solitary stuff..
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Anonymous2006-06-27 2:55
>>9
I did that for about the first 20 years of my life. It's not as great as you might think.
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Anonymous2006-06-27 2:57
>>8
the majority of real people my age (20) suck, because they're so wrapped up in themselves, living for the next social event that they forget how to be interesting. they feel obliged to do what all other youths are doing, which is partying hard..
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Anonymous2006-06-27 5:39
it is possible to live your entire life alone and be happy about it.
Why do people think it is so important to talk and interact with people just for the sake of being social. I always think I should follow what I feel, I'll approach someone only when I feel the need to, I'll go to an event if it interests me.
But if I talk to someone or go to event for the sake of being social then im just following an idea (to be social). Even if you don't want to talk to that person, or go to that event you still go because you are blindly following an idea.
Why make yourself suffer, cause stress and anger, when you can easily just do what you enjoy?
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Anonymous2006-06-27 5:46
>>12
i used to do that. even though i didn't particularly enjoy doing social things, i did it just to say "HEY I'M A NORMAL PERSON! LOOK AT ME! I'M BEING SOCIAL!"
then i realised i'd have been happier doing random shit on my own.
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Anonymous2006-06-27 6:14 (sage)
>>1
If only you were a man, and if only I supported relationships with any person as a concept.
In any case, I can just claim to be bitter as fuck, FUCK ALL, there we go.
>No one should ever aspire to be the thing >>5 mentioned.
Fixed.
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>>12
You know I sometimes wish I could think like this, because then I wouldn't be lonely. But fuck I want a girlfriend god damnit! Some friends would be allright too.
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Anonymous2006-06-27 7:02
>>14
i'm like that for the past 2 years now, well, it sucks, i'd rather back to my old self again
>>1
Stop taunting me, foul troll. Women with that mindset do not exist :(
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Anonymous2006-06-27 9:37
>>21
i'm actually female. i don't know why it's so hard to believe that.
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Anonymous2006-06-27 10:53
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Anonymous2006-06-27 10:54
>>1 THAT'S CALLED A HIKIKOMORI AND I SAY THEY TURN ME ON TOO
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Anonymous2006-06-27 10:54
Depends on what you value in life. To know how to act social can be a pretty useful weapon in some situations.
just like >>12 says. Keeping your head above water.
And later I can go back to lonliness and happily embrace myself.
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Anonymous2006-06-27 11:25
>>27
it's good to know how to act around people yeah but a lot of the time it's shit.. better to not bother
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Anonymous2006-06-27 17:14
>>24
You must be new to the internet, we have certain standards that will always apply
As it pertains to females, there exists none.
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Anonymous2006-06-27 18:34
>>6
Did anyone else look at this as proof that THERE IS NO REAL WOMAN ON THE INTERNETS?
wha wha wha? "meaningful" relationship? So a pair of boobs likes you, big deal. Whats the point? You sperm in or on her for the rest of your life and gain nothing. Wow thats so meaningful.
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Anonymous2006-06-28 5:52
Hmmm reading that first post it just about sums me up, don't get me wrong for being fucked in the head. Most people here are dicks, and they're only into stupid trends and act most the time.
If I tried to socialise, it takes too much effort and what's the reward?
If I tried to date some girls, I gotta look cool/cute/buff whatever, and generally spend more time building up abs (which are functionally useless except for the look), if in this case the girls are interested, they are no better than their animal counterpart, wanting a physically better mate for their offspring.
Nah, I'm just the more emotional kinda guy wanting something better than girls who are just pretty.
>>39
You could talk to it. It moves around and stuff via locomotion, provided by a central nervous system, at the centre of which is a brain, which has thoughts, just like you!
it is possible to live your entire life alone and be happy about it.
It's also possible to believe that blowing yourself up for your god will reward you with 72 virgins in heaven.
Nerds like video games/anime etc. because they don't have anything else. These things are much more accessible, and really are fun when you get into them. They hate social stuff because they haven't been able to succeed at it.
Preppies, party-goers enjoy social stuff because they think that's all there is. They hate games and computers because it makes them "look bad" when really, there's plenty to enjoy in either side. It's the fools who take it to the extreme and think there's nothing else to be had and so miss out on it.
Let's all pick a flavor: chocolate or vanilla and eat it for the rest of our lives. Because the other flavor clearly just isn't as good.
but if you're on 4chan, you obviously still succumb to your desire to socialize, just with another [better] type of person...too bad 4chan is mostly anon
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Anonymous2007-08-04 5:02 ID:SOL62WB5
>>48
Dr. Suse was great at making fun of people's predicaments like that
he hated children lol
I agree. Society has made it where if you aren't out socializing everyday, you look like the outcast kid. Honestly, What if im 100% happy with being by myself? But then again, let's look at it in another perspective. Some people are afraid to go out and socialize because they dont know how to interact with people(keep conversation going), so what do you they do to avoid all of this? simple. they dont interact with people. some may not admit it, but are afraid of rejection and what not. Everybody is trying to be normal, but what's wrong with being the way that makes you damn happy?
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Anonymous2007-08-04 8:38 ID:fYRl+HWl
MOTHERFUCK ME JESUS ITS LIKE SOCIETY WONT GET OFF MY DICK IF I DONT SOCIALIZE. I GO INTO STARBUCKS AND I FEEL FUCKING RETARDED IF I DONT MINGLE WITH EVERY PERSON PRESENT. I NEED SOMEONE ON EACH SIDE OF ME WHILE I TYPE ON THE INTERNET. I FEEL COMPELLED TO PLAY FRISBY WITH THE KIDS IN THE PARK REGARDLESS WHAT THEIR MOTHER THINKS. IM AT THE MOVIES IN THE FRONT ROW LOOKING BACK AT THE AUDIENCE WITH A BIG GRIN AND SOME POPCORN.
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Anonymous2007-08-04 9:49 ID:kA2gUFuc
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Anonymous2007-08-04 10:16 ID:QQJsXhzN
Wow a good thread! Sorta.
Anyway I'm a girl who's in the middleground of socialite and super otaku gal.
I only really party at convention raves and love staying home and popping in my fav anime, listen to podcasts, draw manga.
I do have a small group of likeminded friends to hang with and play multiplayer vidgames/ D&D/ watch anime with.
Its a good middleground. While I do like guys who somewhat classify as hikikomori (without the smell!) because I could break their shell for a bit of air. Plus everyone knows geeks and nerds that don't get any are actually hella better in the sack.
Fuck Society. RedCream agrees, he takes all comers.
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Anonymous2007-08-04 11:12 ID:6Y9IiVIg
THere is no middle ground between socialite and anime freak. They instantly cancel on another out, and you are probably a furry fucking freak.
Bad day to you.
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Anonymous2007-08-04 16:04 ID:csaWvI7G
>>58
Middleground? What you described was totally "otaku" to me, and I like watching anime. The only step higher I know of for people like you is buying figures and adorning your room with posters. If there's even more than that... well, good god. I would pity them greatly.
I think denial might be one of your closest friends.
Oh, and the geeks and nerds being good lovers is not true. They tend to lack confidence and suck at what they do--that is, until they learn. But by that time the girl has usually given up on them for a guy who exudes a more confident air. Or one who's just lied to her more often.
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Anonymous2007-08-04 16:12 ID:hyB1TBi+
i think the ideal cabbage is one that never goes out, shuns lunch and camps out in the fridge. an outcast, outsider, alienated vegetable. spends christmas and new years alone, uneaten. but he is not bitter, he simply refuses to play the social game...
as much as it seems to can everything and then some without anyone else... humans are social animals we are meant to be with others... just go to ur friend's house every now and then and get a life and ull feel alot better
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