i think the ideal man is one that never goes out, shuns parties and camps out on the internet. an outcast, outsider, alienated individual. spends christmas and new years alone in his room with a favourite dvd. but he is not bitter, he simply refuses to play the social game..
It's hard to be not bitter, because it's bitter to be hard...
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Anonymous2006-06-27 2:34
>>3
when you really think about it, there's nothing particularly great about those guys who are smooth talkers and social butterflies. usually they care more about their image than actually forging bonds with other people. they go to clubs and say their meaningless hellos to the 39083728943 friends and acquaintances, get drunk and so forth..
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Anonymous2006-06-27 2:41
i think the ideal woman is one that never goes out, shuns parties and camps out on the internet. an outcast, outsider, alienated individual. spends christmas and new years alone in his room with a favourite dvd. but he is not bitter, he simply refuses to play the social game..
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Anonymous2006-06-27 2:45
>>5
You people are looking at things in extremes.
<super invert> vs. <super extravert>
There is actually a middle ground. People who have good social habbits, but aren't trying to, "be somebody." People who also enjoy playing video games and doing other nerdy things.
No one should ever aspire to be either of the things >>1-5 mentioned.
Living in your room and refusing to interact with people is unhealthy and provides your with no life experience and no real memories.
Being a social whore is a busy, expensive life that's all flash with no bang, and in most cases very harmful to your liver.
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Anonymous2006-06-27 2:51
>>7
Memories ? WHAT IS A MEMORY !!!? My LSD trips provide all the memories I need. Real people are boring compared to what/who my confused brain can generate.
also i was exaggerating a little, but people of any gender who constantly feel the need to be out and be seen sadden me. there is absolutely nothing wrong with sitting alone doing solitary stuff..
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Anonymous2006-06-27 2:55
>>9
I did that for about the first 20 years of my life. It's not as great as you might think.
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Anonymous2006-06-27 2:57
>>8
the majority of real people my age (20) suck, because they're so wrapped up in themselves, living for the next social event that they forget how to be interesting. they feel obliged to do what all other youths are doing, which is partying hard..
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Anonymous2006-06-27 5:39
it is possible to live your entire life alone and be happy about it.
Why do people think it is so important to talk and interact with people just for the sake of being social. I always think I should follow what I feel, I'll approach someone only when I feel the need to, I'll go to an event if it interests me.
But if I talk to someone or go to event for the sake of being social then im just following an idea (to be social). Even if you don't want to talk to that person, or go to that event you still go because you are blindly following an idea.
Why make yourself suffer, cause stress and anger, when you can easily just do what you enjoy?
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Anonymous2006-06-27 5:46
>>12
i used to do that. even though i didn't particularly enjoy doing social things, i did it just to say "HEY I'M A NORMAL PERSON! LOOK AT ME! I'M BEING SOCIAL!"
then i realised i'd have been happier doing random shit on my own.
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Anonymous2006-06-27 6:14 (sage)
>>1
If only you were a man, and if only I supported relationships with any person as a concept.
In any case, I can just claim to be bitter as fuck, FUCK ALL, there we go.
>No one should ever aspire to be the thing >>5 mentioned.
Fixed.
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>>12
You know I sometimes wish I could think like this, because then I wouldn't be lonely. But fuck I want a girlfriend god damnit! Some friends would be allright too.
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Anonymous2006-06-27 7:02
>>14
i'm like that for the past 2 years now, well, it sucks, i'd rather back to my old self again
>>1
Stop taunting me, foul troll. Women with that mindset do not exist :(
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Anonymous2006-06-27 9:37
>>21
i'm actually female. i don't know why it's so hard to believe that.
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Anonymous2006-06-27 10:53
post pix plz
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Anonymous2006-06-27 10:54
>>1 THAT'S CALLED A HIKIKOMORI AND I SAY THEY TURN ME ON TOO
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Anonymous2006-06-27 10:54
Depends on what you value in life. To know how to act social can be a pretty useful weapon in some situations.
just like >>12 says. Keeping your head above water.
And later I can go back to lonliness and happily embrace myself.
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Anonymous2006-06-27 11:25
>>27
it's good to know how to act around people yeah but a lot of the time it's shit.. better to not bother
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Anonymous2006-06-27 17:14
>>24
You must be new to the internet, we have certain standards that will always apply
As it pertains to females, there exists none.
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Anonymous2006-06-27 18:34
>>6
Did anyone else look at this as proof that THERE IS NO REAL WOMAN ON THE INTERNETS?
wha wha wha? "meaningful" relationship? So a pair of boobs likes you, big deal. Whats the point? You sperm in or on her for the rest of your life and gain nothing. Wow thats so meaningful.
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Anonymous2006-06-28 5:52
Hmmm reading that first post it just about sums me up, don't get me wrong for being fucked in the head. Most people here are dicks, and they're only into stupid trends and act most the time.
If I tried to socialise, it takes too much effort and what's the reward?
If I tried to date some girls, I gotta look cool/cute/buff whatever, and generally spend more time building up abs (which are functionally useless except for the look), if in this case the girls are interested, they are no better than their animal counterpart, wanting a physically better mate for their offspring.
Nah, I'm just the more emotional kinda guy wanting something better than girls who are just pretty.