i prefer shut-in nerds

i think the ideal man is one that never goes out, shuns parties and camps out on the internet. an outcast, outsider, alienated individual. spends christmas and new years alone in his room with a favourite dvd. but he is not bitter, he simply refuses to play the social game..

Depends on what you value in life. To know how to act social can be a pretty  useful weapon in some situations.
just like >>12 says. Keeping your head above water.

And later I can go back to lonliness and happily embrace myself.