And here we have the plight of the wanderer who has hit a snag and being held down by an unseen force. Not being a total mindless fuck like the majority of our populace both in the world and the world of 4chan, he realizes that to begin with, there really isn't such a thing as love, at least, not that it is related to this thread or anything...I mean, not that it is something at all worthwhile both in pursuit and practice, yet he sees or feels something that is or something similar to this about someone he may or may not even know. Something is telling him "oh totally dude, she's totally rad and whatever and you should totally hit it" and he not being able to see where this is coming from (an affect of us as humans only containing/using half of our whole mind) thinks that it comes from himself, but yet, it makes no sense because he knows for a fact already that what is called love is such a pointless thing, why would such an occurance happen within his own mind in spite of such knowledge?
Knowing that this sudden andunfamiliar sentiment about the matter is in no way a good thing, he searches for a remedy to this recent ail. One solution may be, to charge out towards the object, spill the horrible thought onto it's plate and let it bring her disgust as such things usually do and naturally should, and he be rewarded with a nice clean crisp and cold rejection which he could use to finally forget such useless thoughts.
However there is a problem in the risk of it, what if the act doesn't do what it would between two perfectly logical beings? What if she is too stupid to play the part required of her or even worse, what if she sees it as an opportunity to take him and with it his individuality and currently pristine self? Here is a terirble problem and in such an event it is enough to make one wonder if those thoughts hadn't originated from her person in the first place, as if by causing them to occur within him without him knowing the origin was all apart of a devious plan to lure him to her where then after an "admittal" of what he thinks to have been his own thought would leave him trapped to do nothing else than to be stuck with her, after said situation plays out.
There really aren't many options that will bring you what you really want, technically you can do what
>>16 says, however who really wants to do that, it is even more outlandish than the idea that the supposed "love" merely comes from the girl herself.
You can stay home and try ever vigilantly to fight off and rid yourself of such thoughts that are not apart of your self to begin with, but that is a tough battle, and more than likely one you probably can't win until you actually see such outside thoughts coming and being able to stop them as they do so, yet even then they will keep coming until the source is stopped, and doing that yourself is even harder.
Technically you may be able to use the pursuit of anyone other than the one "you're currently thinking about" (which again, is not actually your thought to begin with) in order to give the source a reason to give up her underhanded pursuit of
your self, but one has to wonder if it really would put a stop to her efforts. Really it is a battle of the strength of both your wills pitted against each other, the idea being the strongest one will last out in the end.
The final and most dangerous option is this: take the approaching route, however, if she fails to comply with your true desire of rejection, it becomes up to you to at that very moment shed the influence of that which drove you there and make it clear that you are in fact not interested in being with her, and that you are not happy that she did not help you in your plight, doing so in as mean a way as possible would most likely work best, for it would seem that only when you fully take the opporunity to break her wretched heart would you be able to stop her desire and therefore stopping her influence upon your person.. Mind you though, at the point which you would be driven to face her is most likely the point when her influence is at it's height, yet such a height is a great opportunity when you consider the fact that you CAN completely turn around the situation, and from such a height the fall would most likely be what it takes to finally break her will and free you from it. I can't really much recommend this option though, for its danger factor and the fact that if you miss the chance you will end up no longer single and like I said, stuck with some random person who you may or may not know, one precautionary measure you can take however, is to be sure NOT to give her any contact information in the meeting, this is very best for the result of her not rejecting you therefore leaving you free to be able to back out of the impending doom of the matter instead of ending up with a nuisance, in case you cannot bring yourself to take your required action in the event if it turns out that way, but also is there even if you properly drop her affections to the floor for leaving her beside herself in her failure to successfully attach herself to you would go a very long way in ensuring an end to your situation of suffering such outside thoughts and feelings for good. Undoubtedly, the combination of turning the tide in your favor at such a critical moment would bring you the victory you need and desire, and returning you once again to your unhindered free spirited self.
Whichever route you choose to take care of the situation, (sparing the obvious unchoosable one, good going
>>16, do go back to the imageboards with your /b/tardery, thanks) I wish you the best of luck and hope you will be victorious.