（´Д｀;;) i get really nervous around girls for some reason, especially when i like them. Is it game over for me?
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Anonymous2005-10-19 20:28
Arranged marriages all the way! You have much better things to do than keep on getting rejected!
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Anonymous2005-10-19 20:45
Sigh... women...
I find it's so hard to interact with them and truly know what they're thinking. For instance, talking with my male friends I can tell what they're really thinking even if they phrase it differently or gloss over certain facts. I can also tell and predict their actions and emotions by their body language. But girls! It's just nuts... I always figured myself to be a good gauge of personality, but with women I have no clue. Even the girls I'm acquainted with I still can't understand.
It's so hard to distinguish signs that women give... I suppose they're raised to be a lot more cryptic in their actions. How can a girl run up and hug me (quite often), move my hand inbetween/near her breasts while riding on the bus ("for warmth (in winter)" my ass), and other such contacts, yet still decline when I finally ask her out?
Other situations a girl writes "je t'aime" and then in another language "i love you" in French class. But the thing is, this is a French class meme of only a select few. I'm not a part of their meme, nor do I understand the comedy of it, but why is she using it with me? How is a guy supposed to react?
There was this once when this slightly emo-girl was coming onto me (we shared some common interests, common viewpoints, she was intelligent and relatively attractive) and yet I froze up. I think the starting of my failure was not showing up at the dance that I was informally supposed to meet her at. Then, she camwhored herself to me over the internet while under the influence of ecstasy (me: "holy fuck"), saying I was one of her "special picks" or some shit. There was some kind of invitation of sex too... WTF am I doing with my life? Do I want to have sex with some whore? (YES; interesting proposition, but no car @ the time) but yet I think I'm afraid of commitment or some excuse along those lines. Had the situation arisen at the present date, I think I'd hop in the car right away...
Anyone suggest topics of conversation with women? I'm pretty sure they aren't interested in electronics, technology, video gaming, or other intellectual subjects... Maybe only nerdy girls? Myself, I'm not really nerdy in appearance but rather in action and interests. I guess I'd describe myself as an average guy.
There are times I feel kinda lonely, when I'm not hanging out with friends (as of late, usually been playing video games with them, seeing movies). Most times I'm perfectly content! But would it be worth my while to get a girlfriend I wonder? I do enjoy the freedom of a single life very much, but those lonely times make me reflect and think. I've had so many chances to leave my single life, and yet I've failed, screwed up, missed the boat, or misinterpreted every one of them.
>>202
Girls really are confusing, but cheer up. Just keep trying to talk to a girl on a friendly basis. It isn't necessary for a girl to love and a girl's meaning of love is always different than a guy's meaning of love. Girls have 3 or more different ways of saying, "I love you" but only one really means that she truly LOVE you, and don't DON"T think of yourself as weird, abnormal, or insane for wanting to be alone and feeling perfectly content. Take care.
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fluffy2005-10-20 19:51
girls suck
the ones you adore leave you and the ones you love but hate stick and you get stuck in a relationship
good points is sex everynight (bj's and handjobs only when bleeding)
but seriously go gay its probally easier....i like vag
I know what you mean, In fact, I was single up until my final high school prom. I met a girl who was nerdy as well through a friend and we had a great relationship up until September. Then stuff fell apart. That's another story though.
The point is, look for girls your friends know, chances are they would be pretty cool. Having a girlfriend is a wonderful thing, especially when you can relax with them playing something like Katamari Damashii. :)
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変車男!.CzKQna1OU2005-10-20 20:29
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Oh I should mention we dated for 2 and a half years after.
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Anonymous2005-10-21 9:59
women are useless for anything except housework and babies
I am amazed at the amount of whiny fags blaming women in this thread.
Did you ever think that, since other people don't have trouble, YOU MAY BE THE PROBLEM?
But other people do have trouble. Your argument fails.
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Anonymous2005-10-22 11:11
>>214
Agreed. Not all of us enjoy going out, getting wasted, and cruising for a piece of ass.
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Anonymous2005-10-22 14:48
>>214-5
You both seem to have missed the point so much that it is laughable.
>>214
Many people have trouble, many people don't. The point is that you should evaluate what you're doing to figure out why you're not one of the people getting laid loads.
>>215
You assume you must get wasted to pick up women. >>212 said you should stop blaming women; you say not all of us enjoy going out. How are they related? Should women all come to your home for your personal inspection?
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Anonymous2005-10-22 14:50
>>214
And they don't blame all women for it if they're rational. >>215
Uh, or you could just get out of your house and stop whining about it on 4chan. That's right people, the only way to ever have female interaction is to get drunk!
Which, if actually holds true for you, means you're pathetic.
You don't quite understand the semantics I intended. Many people have problems that they can't attribute to themselves. Their lifestyles just don't suit dating or the such. Additionally, a lot of people don't date by choice. I just prioritize making assloads of money over a disposable lot of women.
>>215
...Wrong order. Going out, cruising for said ass, THEN getting wasted.
This is world4ch. The level of misogynist idealism is normal.
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Anonymous2005-10-23 11:29
>>218 Wrong order. Going out, cruising for said ass, THEN getting wasted.
I see. Sorry, Asperger's Syndrome has essentially screwed my understanding of how social interaction works.
This is world4ch. The level of misogynist idealism is normal.
... My misanthropy senses are tingling. Is that normal?
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Anonymous2005-10-23 18:01
Misogynist idealism? Can someone explain that to me.
Most of the society is trash. The people experiencing these difficulties in this thread are admirable individuals who stand well above the scum, so they feel strange and alone when they're just being sincere and logic. I feel for them. I used to be one of them, and I still am, with the difference I've learnt to deal with it.
The only way out is to not give a damn for women, at least not for those unworthy of people like us. To those guys I can say: learn to be happy by yourself; you have the gifts of intelligence and individualism, being alone is the price you pay.
That girl you love who would never think of you as a lover, and will go for the "alpha male" (read: motherfucking crack smoking jerk) only to cry on your shoulders when he beats/rapes/dumps her: she's not worth it. Forget her, she's unworthy of a special person like you. If you're feeling particularly merciful, be her friend - but never attempt to be her lover; you're a different kind of people, and unfortunately, we don't mix.
Aim for the legendary girl-like-us. She is our holy grail. And like the holy grail, whether she exists or not is not important; the search for her is. Do not despair, and do not fall for commoners.
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Anonymous2005-10-24 16:04
I have been single all my life. Because I cannot commit to another human being (non-family) severely enough to call it love. And I don't believe in fuck-buddy relationships. I rarely stay focused on a single girl long enough for it to develop into even an interest.
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Anonymous2005-10-24 18:28
I recently got dumped by a girl that I had a crush on and tried to confess. I'm not going to give up on women nor am I going to "go gay" rather i'm learning from my past mistakes and applying on the next girl that I feel interested in. Unfortunately, there aren't many girls in my town that I AM attracted in because most of them are shallow idiots that I can't relate anything with and just being with them feels rather boring.
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Anonymous2005-10-24 19:48
>>221
Millions of flies can't be wrong? Just like how we can never elect the worse candidateOh shut the fuck up, you elitist prick. The problem is people who are blaming all woman because they're not charismatic. You really believe fuckers whining about how they can't tell what a girl is thinking would act the same way if they could actually be somewhat popular with the opposite sex? Hello Bernard Marx. STUPIDITY IS NOT LIMITED TO A GENDER, CUNTRAGS. These people aren't individuals, just social outcasts. There's no logic in saying that all women are trash and stereotyping them. Fuck off and change your nick to 40 year old virgin.
>>224
Neither I said all women are anything, nor I said most women are trash. If you get your head out of your as a little bit to reread what I said, you'll discover I was refering to guys as well, and in fact, there's not one bit of sexual discrimination in my post. I never said these legendary girls are rarer than these good people, or "social outcasts", and I criticized all the rabble, not commoner girls alone.
>>225
I used to make a big deal of it, so I was kind of emo, won't deny it. But then I learnt to accept it and live as I am - alone and free of the burden of chasing unworthy girls incapable of any sincerity or fairness. Of course, I'm open to formidable (or "social outcast" as you would name them) girls if I ever meet any. There must be a board somewhere where they're ranting about how shitty guys are just like us here.
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Anonymous2005-10-25 16:45
>>228
Yes, there was, jackass. Stereotyping any woman who doesn't like you as someone who loves crackwhore assholes. These aren't good people. They're just bitter because they've never gotten laid and deal with it in the worst way possible. Girls who also can't get a date and love chauvanists aren't legendary. You will die alone.
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Anonymous2005-10-25 18:34
>>229
Nope, dipshit. At the same time, I stereotyped guys of being crackwhore assholes, which is kind of worse, so if anything, I was sexist in the other way, dur. Girls who can't get a date are probably good, out of the ordinary individuals who don't enjoy crackwhore assholes like most others do.
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Anonymous2005-10-25 19:51
>>229 You will die alone.
So will everyone else on 4chan. What's your point?
I probably will die alone, but i'm not going to sit around and let that happen. Even if the odds are against me 100000 to 1. I will still try, try, and try again no matter how many times I get hurt.
lol Legendary. Look at this psychologically. Social prominence theory. It's perfectly normal. The sooner you realize every human being is a puppet to his psyche the sooner you get over the fact that life isn't designed to be fair. Complaining about how people suck and her there are legendary people doesn't change a thing or make you sound smarter. Play the game or sit on the sidelines. world4ch is hardly the 50 yard line.
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Anonymous2005-10-27 16:49
>>229
Or sexist in both ways, genius. Your bitter attitude towards women who aren't social outcasts makes this evident. Not to mention you're stereotyping everyone who's turned you down as someone who likes crackwhore assholes. Could it be you're simply not attractive mentally or physically? Perhaps they don't want to be with someone who could turn into a stalker when they break it off with him because of his obvious chauvanistic ways?
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Anonymous2005-10-27 16:52 (sage)
Posting in a legendary thread. lol@constant bitching about how normal women are retarded. MAYBE THEY DON'T LIKE YOU BECAYSE YOU JACK OFF TO ANIME FAGS