Who here has been single all their life.

（´Д｀;;) i get really nervous around girls for some reason, especially when i like them. Is it game over for me?

>>1
Until women mature, only jerks and retards get them. Don't worry though, it's not worth the hassle. You're better alone.

>>2 is right. They're usually very boring, and when you're in a relationship with one, the level of chatter suddenly goes through the roof, while they grow more and more boring. It's really a bother.

>>1
At least know that you're not alone. It's impossible for me to get intimate with females, even when they're piss drunk and feebly clinging to me. Eventually the girls just get bored with me and look for someone else.

I've also got a definitive case of paruresis and possibly APD too, but I haven't bothered to actively seek professional therapy yet.

I have not been with a girl. i will die alone. but then again part of it is my own choosing. Sure i would like to have sex. But i dont want a relationship. Besides girls have  a way of sucking a mans wallet dry

I had my first girlfriend recently, but I had been so desperate for years that I didn't know what to do with her (among some other niggling issues of her own). We had things in common but not very significant ones. Thus we broke it off and I'm back FEELING like I've been single all my life. bluh. social phobia sucks dick, except it doesn't, because it can't get you anyone to suck your dick.

>>4
Getting intimate is actually pretty easy, the question is, can they actually answer accordingly? Sometimes. But some other times they're way too immature.

>>6
Social phobia doesn't suck; it's only a consequence of intelligence. The fact you're saying you're antisocial makes me think you're a smart, worthy person. None of us want to be "normal", if being "normal" means being a random fucktard.

The problem you have is that you are above average, above society; and finding a girl like this at this age is very hard.

Hay guys.

>>7
Then why are there so many smart people who are social? Stop deluding yourself.

I like men :D

>>9
They are not smart, but smrat. The smartest people ever was always weird.

yes because you used that gross smiley.

I can't find a girl that isn't some Darcy-seeking bundle of emo and black hole of money.

Hence I'd rather be single and a vaginatease.

All the girls at my college are hambeasts and wiggers. OH GOD HELP

>>14

thats funny because all the girls at my old college, well most were slim, with big breasts, and a nice figure

ahem

anyway ive been single for a few months =/

I have had a girlfriend once in my life. After that ended, I've made no effort to get into a new relationship.

In fact, I can't remember when I last talked to a girl.

I have a shot at a cute anime/gamer girl, but I'd rather go for a normal girl, so I guess I'm holding out.  What is a man to do, 4chan?

>>17
OH MY GOD WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM
GO FOR HER
RIGHT NOW

>>17
Are you stupid or what? Get out of world4ch right now you moron and chase her!!! You're one of the few, almost legendary people I know to have a shot at a REAL girl you can love. Normal girls are retards who go for the shittiest guys to get beaten and raped so they can cry on good guys' shoulders - the guys they'd never date because they are their best friend (stupidest reason ever); cause you a lot of trouble, cost a lot of money, and all they want is to dance and to do stupid things. You probably haven't realized how fucking lucky you are.

So turn your intarweb off and go for her, goddammit!

>>19
Define "normal girls" and how they differ from girls who like anime or games.

I'm pretty sure girls who like anime or games can be "normal".

If you've been single all your life, don't worry too much.
If you've been *actively* trying to get rid of you status as single for more than six months, worry.
Seriously, if you've avoided girls all your life, they're going to surprise you when you stop – a lot of them are cool people and not that hard to talk to.

I have actually actively avoided girls (relationship wise) since ever. Do I have a complecks or what!

Depends on why you've been doing it.
If you're just not interested you're probably doing alright.

I knew about five girls who actually actively wanted a relationship with me and I rejected them. I don't know why I am doing it; it just sort of ignore the world (and thus ignore them) when people come close to me. Yes, I was interested in them but...I just shut off all emotions and close my face and sort of move to another world. I am so fucked up.

>>23
I'm sorry, but that does sound rather fucked up.
My advice is telling someone what you just wrote. In real life. Not because they're going to help you, but just because the more you throw out there, the less you've got to lose.
Anonymous wishes you luck!

>>20
Well, "normal" girls (as in most of them) want to get beaten, are stupid, prick tease, like drugs, the only thing at life they can enjoy is dancing, they make their boyfriends suffer and have them as hooked as possible, they only want sex but they pretend not to, they only care for looks but they say just the opposite, they won't admit they would/do love porn, piss on the good people and would never ever go out with them (although using them for all sorts of things is fine), and most of all, they wouldn't be sincere even if their life, and more importantly, their makeup, depended on it.

>>21
Oh, what a letdown.

>>22
They may be easy to talk to, but "normal" girls are really stupid. Valley girls are just a more evident version but most of them have the stupid gene. They won't catch anything half humorous you may ever think off, they'll laugh at absolutely stupid, forwards, boring jokes I hate, and they can't talk about anything serious for more than 30 seconds, unless it consists of blaming you for something you probably aren't to blame anyways.

>>23
You have a smart sense of not wasting your time.

>>25
Next time, wait till you screw them before you drop them. Oh, wat, that's what they actually love. If you do that, you'll get 10 girls a week, because you're "hard" and "kewl" and "kewl" (yes, I repeated it, normal girls would, too).

Anonymous wishes you luck, but if you don't want a relationship, then you might not need any more luck than you already have.

>>27
Could have been a funny post if it hadn't been for the people who actually believe shit like that.
...
Scratch that, it was still funny.

>>27
CRAWLLLLLING IN MYYY SKINNNNNN

>>28
Lol, I don't believe that, I know that.

>>29
Not rly emo sir, I'm over with that shit, I'm just complaining because I like to bitch over things. I don't want a relationship myself unless it's a rare, freaky, uncommon girl with the strange habit of sincerity.

I am 19yo virgin, emo, bisexual. When I walk on the street hot girls are staring at me, because I am cute. But I am too shy to get any.

>>31
OMG. i am in the exact same predicament.

Well, I could have had a head start if I didn't believe that I was a robot for the past four years of my life.

>>31
>>32
yaranaika?

>>18
>>19

Sorry guys, not really buying it.  I really can't see my anime/gamer-isms leaking into my public life.  I don't go to cons or even let anything anime touch me when I leave my room.  I guess I'm a closet 4chan fan at that.  I guess I just couldn't  come to grips with a relationship that forced me to do these things openly.  =\

>>35
Shut up, bryan. Sheesh. At least girls look your way.

>>35
WTF. Public life ain't worth shit compared to having a worthy girl (by >>19's definition). Don't tell me you want to be "normal". As in devoid of any intelligence and full of shit. You gotta be above all that. Normality is for losers, for social lambs who need to be all together and so "normal" because they ain't shit alone.

>>37

How do you know she's worthy?  Normality is for losers?  That's just the constrarian's naturalistic fallacy.  You're all assuming anime girl > normal girl, whereas by formal logic there isn't any distinction on many of the levels.  They can be just as bad on all counts.

>>37
Cheer up emo kid

>>38
She's not an average social invididual, right? This means she's probably above average. I'm making an assumption out of a generalization. They can be just as bad, but it'd be statistically harder, as I know she's above average in at least one of the fields, while I don't know of any field where she's under average.