>>4
Getting intimate is actually pretty easy, the question is, can they actually answer accordingly? Sometimes. But some other times they're way too immature.
>>6
Social phobia doesn't suck; it's only a consequence of intelligence. The fact you're saying you're antisocial makes me think you're a smart, worthy person. None of us want to be "normal", if being "normal" means being a random fucktard.
The problem you have is that you are above average, above society; and finding a girl like this at this age is very hard.