Abusive Relationship = Good Thing

It's a hard thing to do, but me and my lover has now agreed to enter an abusive relationship. Instead of seeing her beat herself up, eating too much, being depressed about feeling worthless, I'm going to be the one to punish her existance and bully her. I hope I can do it, because if I won't do it, she will, and she's far more destructive than me.

Life sure is weird.

>>13
You are assuming that an abusive relationsship is always destructive, and can never be constructive, but I think abuse can be constructive in many ways, one of them being to provide her space to grow positive thinking. If I tell her positive things, she takes on the role of being the one to tell herself negative things while desperately looking for negative interpretations of what I'm saying. "I like you.", "Shut up.", has been a common exchange between us. She can't handle praise and so she needs to feel miserable to feel mentally stable. She needs to instead grow praise from within, and she can only do this if she feels safe and in control of the praise, sheltered by abuse.


>>14
That's a good idea, but unfortunately shrinks doesn't give advice by proxy.