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If being mean to her is the hardest thing you could do, then why have you already chosen it over something counter-destructive, like helping her? If you think she can't be helped, you're either making up an excuse because it's too hard for you to care about, or you simply can't figure it out--in both cases, you should figure out some way for someone else to. If you don't WANT to help her, if you'd rather be mean to her than ACTUALLY improve her life, then just say so, and stop pretending you care about her.
Being mean to her just because she WANTS YOU TOO would be like giving a beer to a person whom you know to be an alcoholic just because it's easier than figuring out how to get him better.
If you're going to reply to this saying I don't understand her, that I don't understand her situation, go ahead. But after you do that, read my posts again. IF you care about her, you'll come up with something better than what you already have. Or if you're a self-centered faggot fuck, you won't listen to me, you won't help her, because it's JUST TOO DAMN HARD!!! Fuck, I hope not.