>>41
"If I was gay, I would prefer those who made it harder to get guns yet want to change the way the world views me as a human, to those who prefer to let this view change at a snails pace while allowing me to get some defense a little easier."
It isn't just 'a little harder to get guns'. If you'd like a snapshot of what 'might be' if the republicans weren't there, just take a look at England. Its ridiculous. Sorry, it isn't a choice between '3 day waiting period, and no gay marriage,' and '5 day waiting period, and gay marriage.'
"You think that people care about marriage or that it is insignificant?"
I think they care, but I think it is far less significant than the 2nd amendment of the U.S. constitution, and a natural inalienable human right that all humans are supposedly endowed with. Anyhow, which is more important should be left up to the voter.
"It's because it is easier to lessen the humanity of people if they happen to lack certain liberties."
Sure. So the solution is to put everyone on equal footing, minus a very essential human liberty (thus lessening the humanity of the nation as a whole), vs. lessening the humanity of a small sect of the population in a /single aspect/ while at the same time granting the entire population (including that segment) more liberty making them more human...?
I think the libertarians are best, but I'd take the repubs over the dems in a heartbeat, considering this.
"and I also think that too few of the right-wing crowd wants to change peoples minds about the gay population."
What does them wanting to change people's mind about anything have to do with anything? People can think whatever they want as far as I'm concerned, so long as they don't infringe on the liberty of others.
"We have official electees spreading lies about the homosexuality-pedophilia link, and there are many who don't even raise an eyebrow."
I do. But I raise my eyebrow higher when official electees spread lies about the 2nd amendment and the constitution.
"If I was gay, I would not wait and see whether society would accept me fully, while clinging to a weapon and hoping for some change."
So what is your solution? Legislate tolerance? That doesn't work. Libertarian is a much better alternative than the democratic party.
"I shouldn't have to. I can get guns anywhere in America save for San Fran,"
Gun rights in the USA are far worse off than you think. Many entire classes of firearms are essentially illegal now, or made so expensive due to totally pointless regulations, that nobody could afford one without selling off a lot of their assets, or else if they are a pretty rich person to begin with that has money to throw around. The laws are geared against your average guy, not the rich folks. I guess you wouldn't care about the weapons laws if you had a few million dollars or more to throw around though.
"and I don't like fog so maybe someone can convince me that having to wait for a gun a little longer is worse than having to wait for my recognition as an American a little longer. The right to marry in church is not a symbol, it is a step."
Gun rights are quite a bit worse off than you think. It isn't just a matter of waiting a bit longer.
"Make no mistake I prefer the libertarians, but they place too much weight on the guns"
No they don't. Libertarians are generally pro-freedom, and they don't focus on any single freedom over another, to speak of. What do you mean by this?
"and I don't think that trusting the market or some other nebulous force to sort out homophobia is a good solution."
So you think trusting the government is a better solution?
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The market sorts out discrimination in its own way. To the degree that one discriminates in a free market, is to the extent that he gets punished. I'd be happy to explain this in a more in-depth manner if you'd like.
"They are ready to allow employers to segregate who they employ and I don't want that either."
Whose business is it? Employment and hiring should be an entirely voluntary activity. What do you want, government guns and bayonets to help you legislate tolerance?
"It's a surrender to those who betray America by categorizing people by irrelevant parameters."
America's heart consists of freedom, liberty, and the right to life, not of regulation of the market. The proper function of the government is to protect these things, not to regulate the market. The free market punishes prejudice in its own way, anyhow.