>>47
Well, first off, I was responding to no. 44. But you're right, changing the gender dynamic throws our whole perception of pedophilia/ephebophilia out the window. I have yet to hear of a boy who was molested by a woman and hated her for it. If you have, let me know.
But what I was getting at is, I think a teenager of either gender can have a really good experience with an adult of either gender, as long as the adult follows certain rules and behaves like an absolute fucking saint whenever conflicts come up. I think it's rare, but it happens. I also think that it's going to mess with the kid's head a little, no matter what. That's life. Everyone has to deal with the choices they've made, including the girl who gets knocked up/infected and the man who winds up in jail.
And no. 47 is also right. Men are more likely to be malicious and selfish. 40,000 years of evolution has hard-wired us to compete ruthlessly to posess young, beautiful, fertile women. We can't control what we like, we can only control how we deal with it. And some of us don't deal with it so well.