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I got to have that experience. Lucky me. I was 14 and she was 26. Unfortunately all we ever got to do was kiss and grope each other, but still it was the hottest experience I've ever had. She kept saying she wanted to get a hotel room and tie me up, but life got in the way.
Relevant to whether or not this fucks people up: I'm still trying to decide how much it changed me. A friend suggests that if your first sex/love experience is with someone your own age, you'll learn to develop attachments to people. Whereas if it's with someone older, you'll develop an attachment to sensations, or a fetish for something she wore. (Any of you psych majors know where she got this from?) But I was already well on my way to being a perv and a fetishist before she showed up.
A lot of people seem to think that anyone under the age of consent (whatever that happens to be in your jurisdiction) will be somehow damaged by having sex with an adult. Well, that may be true. But I also think any relationship can damage anyone. That's how people grow and learn. Some relationships are worth the damage and others aren't. This one definitely was.