>>6
no, no, no no, NO! The first rule of dating, I repeat, is to NEVER confess your feelings towards a woman before SHE does
it will not spark attraction at all, instead it will just be perceived as an immense sign of neediness and weakness and will kill off any tension, and any mystery between the two of you, which is often mandatory to create attraction between a man and a woman
what needs to be done instead is to ask for something that implicitly expresses your affection-- asking her out for a date (without using that word) just the two of you is an example, but without ever admitting to it... ambiguity and subtle sexual pressure are dating's lifeblood
if you receive anything else than an agreement, you IMMEDIATELY CUT OFF ALL CONTACTS... if she ever cared about you as a man instead of an emotional tampon or a tool, she'll seek you out, if not she'll keep seeking a man
a man should only have one policy regarding women to save a lot of wasted time and disappointment: fuck me, or fuck off