today this really beautiful girl comes up to me after class and gives me her e-mail adress with the comment:"If you have time and are interested in meeting sometimes, write to me"
what should I do? I'm a 22 years old weeaboo which had never contact with women and my room reeks of WEEABOO!!! posters and figurines EVERYWHERE.
I'm confused. true story by the way and in before not your blog.
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anon: cinema, let her pick what to watch. then walk in the park after, chat idly about the film or whatever. if you're going to TAKE HER HOEM, de-weeaboo your room first
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anon: Details?
I.e. are you friends? Do you talk sometime? How well do you know her?
Maybe just go with her for pizza or something and talk, try to get to know her better, that's one reason dates are for anyway
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OP: de-weeaboo my room? no fucking way. I mean to build up a relationship on a lie isn't very promising.
ok there will be no relationship in the first place because I'm gonna screw everything up but anyways I won't lie to myself or hide who I am. that sucks.
What I thought of is maybe meeting at her place and cook something, watching a movie.
but asking her to meet at her place right in the start may give off a wrong image of my motives huh?
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OP: we just met at the start of the new term last week. ended up in the same class. we're sitting next to each other during class and so we chat about trivial stuff
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anon: open thread on text board
so others can know the progress/thread dont get deleted/marked for old
and here I am.
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Nyoro~n2007-10-31 19:45
dude, this is a text board. NO ONE IS HERE.
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Anonymous!TA0T5gpKEQ2007-10-31 19:47
i'm here.. not much of a help though
*bookmarked
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Anonymous2007-10-31 19:48
What class was it anyway? Is it possible she may be a weeaboo as well? Do you have anything in common that you know of? That could be a good starting point...
Did you even write her an email yet? What did you write?
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Anonymous2007-10-31 19:48
Out of curiosity, how many figurines and such do you have?
having a couple around is fine but, entire shelves full and she might think you're a bit obsessive.
How much do you know about this girl, since you say youve been chatting?
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Anonymous!TA0T5gpKEQ2007-10-31 19:52
[repost here]
go for a simple lunch (pizza etc etc). try to make a conversation during the period. If you already get used to talking to her, next time can go shopping. dont be hasty and do everything at once.
thats what i did back in the days
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Anonymous2007-10-31 19:56
HAHAHAHA
SHE GAVE YOU HER E-MAIL. LOL WHO ACTUALLY USES E-MAIL? STUPID RETARDS.
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Anonymous2007-10-31 19:58
How long do textboard threads last, anyway?
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Anonymous2007-10-31 20:00
Just kill yourself, you're going to fail.
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Anonymous2007-10-31 20:02
>>8
i dunno LUL.. probably as long it doesnt get pushed out due to inactive
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Grieve!DYuMa5ppss2007-10-31 20:03
Drink some liquid courage.
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Anonymous2007-10-31 20:05
E-mail. that could be because you are not a great talker*, and she wanted to make it easier for you...?
OP here. first thing: she gave me her e-mail because she asked me first to exchange mobile numbers, but due the fact that I don't possess such thing as a mobile she gave me her e-mail instead.
actually I am quite a talker. I'm not shy when it comes to communicating with other people. as long there is noone amongst them I care about. because I don't really give a shit what other people think about me
maybe I'll give you some information about me.
I'm a pretty hardcore weeaboo. so >>5 I have bookshelfs full of figurines. my walls are plastered with anime posters (Megami for the mainpart)my desks are filles with gundam papercrafts and modells and so on.
on the other hand though I love to go to metal concerts and festivals and moshing my heart out. but I don't like parties with shitty music in little smoked filled rooms. so I spent my weekends either on my won or P&P RPG'ing with my friends or go to a concert if I have the money.
I'm not a fa/tg/uy though. I do some sport and so I'm in quite a good shape.
so that's me.
the problem here is that because I am a nice guy. yeah one of these nice guys getting the:"I just wanna stay friends with you" reply in case they confess.
this happened to me once in highschool and ever since I quit with women till today.
but now there is this beautiful girl who really is interesting. But I have no fucking experience dealing with such a situation.
>>4 We both are into romantic movies. that's what we talked about after class after she gave me her mail adress.
what do you guys think about this plan:
asking her out for helping me study in a public place and than use the "repaying" for her help as an excuse to meet at her place so I can cook something and watch a movie. ?
that's what I thought of.
>>9 I know I'm going to fail with a 99,9999% chance but I won't kill myself as long as I wasn't in Akiba for one fucking time.
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Anonymous2007-11-01 10:58
Repaying plan sounds good. If you feel confident enough ask her does she want to go out another time, only thing is will she think of it as a date or a strictly platonic thing?
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Anonymous2007-11-01 12:09
40 year old virgin style... GET RID OF EVERYTHING!!!
jesus, grow some god damn balls and go for her! Don't confess like a little pussy, you won't get anything that way! Be a confident asshole. That way she knows that you'll actually FUCK her instead of beating off to her shadow. Live in the moment and for the love of god DON'T SHOW YOUR HOBBY unless you are confident in showing it to her, or she worships the ground you walk on.
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Anonymous2007-11-03 8:54
OP here.
just wrote the mail. Suggested to meet for a learning session.
why I keep posting? it's fun.
I'm going to become the new densha otoko! fuck yeah!
>>23
confessing right from the start is a bad idea no matter how badass I do it.
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Anonymous2007-11-03 9:10
I think you should rape her. pics plz
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Anonymous2007-11-03 10:40
>>24
*sigh* you idiot. What I mean is always reflect attraction in your eyes. SHOW her that you are interested, but your not a pussy that will only be willing to fuck her. Women don't want flowers or gifts, they just want to be LIKED like anyone else. It's not that hard, so stop being a little bitch and go for her. NO CONFESSING. make HER confess. and if you don't know how to do that, then you need more training.
>>26 FAIL. Plenty of guys get laid while not caring a jot or smidgen for the bitch. It shows PLENTY in their eyes. The difference is that they know how to play on the natural lack of self confidence in women.
>>30
God dammit you have to be the most moronic, annoying, shit ass dickhead alive. Killing yourself wouldn't solve things, because when stupid people die it causes a resonance with the people around the dead body and creates even MORE despicable morons. You should be locked up and thrown under water so that no one has to suffer your innate stupidity. You are the anti-christ's stupid cousin.
so i guess i'm a casual fag. it fits pretty well with me liking cocks
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Anonymous2007-11-04 17:57
This thread was boring... was expecting some lulz.
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Anonymous2007-11-04 19:25
Fucking OP needs to post moar.
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Anonymous2007-11-09 10:52
ｷﾀ━━━━━━(ﾟ∀ﾟ)━━━━━━ !!!!!
I met her today, we talked a lot, barely studied anything and next weekend we'll meet at her place to watch a movie or two.
has anyone any protips how to prevent, getting placed in the "only a good friend and nothing more" box?
It's theoraticly spoken the first date. I often hear girls like self confident assholes. well I'm quite selfconfident but not an asshole. how should I act?
Protips anyone? despite "kill yourself" and the usual stuff (yeah rape me falls into this category too)
>>44
dude, you have got to show not only interest, but the idea that you are going to screw her brains out. Why do people date? to screw each other. So having characteristics that prove that you will do such is paramount to success. So do everything you can to up you confidence level. Don't just be an anime freak, be everything and more so that you can tear this bitches panties off. Don't suck up, make her suck. And pray on her low self-esteem, that always works.
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Anonymous2007-11-09 18:01
>>46
seems like I forgot the divide by zero thing...
>>47
how does this work? I don't get it. this description is just too vague.
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Anonymous2007-11-10 9:17
Fuck. I knew that wasn't sushi. =\
If you don't want to be a "good friend" then compliment her a lot. Don't hesitate to hug her or anything. And don't spend too much time with her. ~_~; Girls spend a lot of time with their girlfriends whether it be at the mall or on the phone. Make her come to you. xP
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Anonymous2007-11-10 15:41
>>49
well isn't too much complimenting her a bad thing to do? One or two comliments may be ok, but too much turns into being a little bit awkward doesn't it? I mean there IS a lot to compliment because she's quite awesome.
anyone knows any good punchlines? I only know the stuff out of the movies but I don't suppose they work in RL?!
I got an old cell by the way and she gave me her number yesterday but I still didn't call her or wrote her a message. I should wait two days right? But what should I write to her? Just some short "hey there, just wanted to check out if the number's right, mail me back if you're the one I tried to reach(name). in case you're not don't you ever call back... or you'll die. srsly!"
or even more serious stuff? any gurls here on board? help me out ladies!
weeaboo 22 over and out.
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Anonymous2007-11-10 16:46
ok, don't throw in that shit at the end, about killing them if it's not. because if it is, that just seems like your a creepy ass shit deep down and not letting her see it. and no punchlines. just don't. too cliche. you don't want to seem like your repeating shit out of a movie, or you're going to have a hell of a time when it comes time to wing it. and what >>47 means is you should not focus on the fact that you're a weeaboo. you have other personality traits. use them. but really, what you should to to screw her and what you should do to keep up a serious relationship are two completely different routes, almost, but they both end up at the same place anyhow. it just depends on what you're looking for in this chick.
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Anonymous!TA0T5gpKEQ2007-11-14 6:57
thread still alive after 2 weeks.
OP still alive? Or already killed softly with weeabooness
>>65
I hope so. Hidden inside our vast contempt is a sensible cynicism that should work in many cases.
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Anonymous2007-11-15 16:29
ok the date is confirmed. at her house. I'll bring the movies and will cook something delicious.
she looked quite happy when I suggested the cooking thing.
Now I only have to avoid the "Good friend" path to hell.
try to get body contact right? compliment her from time to time right? oh boy this is gonna be heart. I'm just too much the good guy for this arrogant shit. this makes no sense at all! why are they talking about how they want a nice and carying, romantic guy when they really want an asshole?
.. women.
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Anonymous2007-11-15 20:01
You don't need to be an asshole, just don't be shy. Let her know you like her, but be respectful about it.
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Anonymous2007-11-15 20:53
DON'T SHOWER HER WITH GIFTS
Be assertive because she'll be looking for you to have ideas
Good posture is way more important than you might think...stand up straight if you don't.
Just don't be all sappy and act like you're going to let her do everything and decide everything, there needs to be a balance there.
And don't by any means act insecure or like you need her and don't take anything sexual too fast because that's basically instant death for your relationship.
Don't be an asshole because all that stuff is bullshit and really doesn't work.
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Anonymous2007-11-15 21:00
HAVE OTAKU PRIDE DUMP THE BITCH TELL HER IF SHE WONT CALL YOU NITAN AND DRESS LIKE MAHORO SHE IS WORTHLESS
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Anonymous2007-11-16 1:34
>>69 >>68
thanks for the help guys. since she's older than me I think the sexual thing won't start from my side of the field because I have no fucking idea what to to when it comes to this. remember, she's the first woman I've gone this far with.
concerning the gifts. I thought of leaving a little red origami flower at her place when I leave. placed where she won't find it immediately as a surprise. but this goes to far doesn't it? for a first date?
I appreciate you help guys.