Girls I like don't like me

I work 7 days a week (sometimes) so I don't go out much. I don't drink..so i don't go to bars. I meet a lot of girls online. Well it seems like the girls I like or date online, can't deal with the distance...I'm always the stronger one that doesn't care about distance, probably because my last real girlfriend was in 1999, so bein alone is not unusual for me. I'm ALWAYS the one who tries to make things work out. A lot of girls I meet are under 18 or else they lie about their age. Speaking of lying about age..I met this girl who told me she was 19..well 4 days afterwards she told was 13 and at this time we were "dating" and she's telling me that she wants to have a family with me and marry me. (and yes she knows my age). I can't deal with this crap anymore. I'm so depressed and wanna die (all the time) i'm so alone..sooo alone.

I swear each year my life keeps on going downhill. I have huge financial debt. Girls treat me like crap being I'm too nice and I'm not doing the career that I went to tech school for. I'm 26, I still live at home, I have no girl and most girls my age are already married or have kids. I love kids and I want kids, but in order for me to do that I need a girlfriend. I have a spending problem and the band that I'm in I'm not happy with. Every time someone (female) hurts me I cut myself or threaten to cut myself. Why live any longer?

>>1

"I met this girl who told me she was 19..well 4 days afterwards she told was 13"

Dude, for fuck's sake, you should really be able to tell 13 and 19-year-olds apart. I mean really, how can you not tell them apart??

"I swear each year my life keeps on going downhill."

All of us have/have had/will have a rough patch in our lives. That's just...life! But, remember that nothing's forever, and if you just keep hanging on, everything will sort itself out eventually and better times will come.

"most girls my age are already married or have kids"

I doubt that's true, and even so, if they have kids already, then so what? You could become a nice and badly needed stepfather for some boy/girl.

"I love kids and I want kids, but in order for me to do that I need a girlfriend."

I don't know, get a girlfriend with a kid? According to you there should be oodles of women your age complete with little kids.

"Every time someone (female) hurts me I cut myself or threaten to cut myself."

And every time a male hurts you you masturbate fiercely while recalling that sweet feeling of humiliation that good-looking guy caused you? You're just prejudiced against women because they have been - at least according to you - treating you like shit. Mister, there are many women who would love to have a decent, respectful, loving and nice guy as a boyfriend, and you seem to fit the bill.

But the awful truth is that you won't get a girlfriend until you stop generalizing and hating women for every disagreeable word or gesture they might say or give in your presence. You have to get over that and start thinking of women as your equals and not demons with boobs.

Oh, and in b4 someone starts to blame the OP's mother for his problems.

>>3


You broke the rule about no girls on the internet. Tits or gtfo.

(It's your turn)
To cry, cry me a river
(Go on and just)
Cry me a river-er
(Go on and just)
Cry me a river
(Baby go on and just)
Cry me a river-er, yea yea

Oh
(Oh)
The damage is done
So I guess I be leaving
Oh
(Oh)

>>4
Go fuck a vacuum cleaner, loser.

>>6


I'd rather fuck you.

>>1
Ah, yes. Another failure produced by society.
Bottom line: The internet is not a good place for dating. I'd rank about .001% of internet relationships actually go somewhere, and that's being generous, including match-up sites like e-harmony and bullshit like that.

Find a nice girl at your work, go and ask her out, and stop being so stupid, kk?

WHY YOU SO STUPID!? YOU NOT HUNGRY FOR GIRL~! YOU HUNGRY FOR *~HOT POKET*~

their no girls on the Internet just 40 year old men who say they are.

In all seriousness, make some changes dude. Try anything. Different clothes, different hobbies, whatever. Try any stuff you've been tempted to try before now. Get in to social activities that will put you around chicks, like a book club, hanging out at a coffee shop, helping charities, a bicycle club...

I'm wrestling with the same issue myself, but the solution isn't to feel sorry about yourself. It's to get your ass out there, change, and take chances. It's like riding a motorcycle: intimidating if you've never done it, but so addictive that you can't stop once you're used to it.

Oh and the advice on http://approachanxiety.com/ is priceless for any guy having issues approaching chicks. Just make the changes, get out there, and go for it. If anything, the activity of trying things and changing will distract from the loneliness. ;-)

>>1
You stupid loser!

I have never got a "girlfriend" (and i am not gay) and i don't want any in my life.
So what?
Are you too WEAK too deal with it being alone?
Do you need someone you can cry to etc.?

Go to hell weakling.

>>and the fibis.

Your only problem is this: like 90% of people, you avoid failure, because it hurts.  Either that or you aim for things that are certain to fail, so you gain predictability and thus control. 

Don't like where your life is going?  Get out there and fail in new ways.  Go to bars, coffee houses, get to know new girls.  See how other people make female friends.  Hell, pretend you're a Norwegian exchange student. Foreigners always attract ladies.  You will crash and burn more times than you care to count, probably.  But eventually, things will change as long as you keep learning from your failures. 

The failures will hurt like nothing else.  But you'll look back, and it'll all be worth it.

>>1
the answer is simple then, kill yourself ;)

How about you get your ass off the computer and actually see a woman face to face for the first time in your life instead of making sweet love to little children through ASCII?

You am fail at maeking teh fwrendz!!!111one!

bump lol

THIS IS A TROLL and you fell for it.

The problem with the internets these days is that you cannot tell a Troll from An Hero.

Who ever here didn't harvest the Little Sisters should direct their virtual love to >>1

just marry your hand, its all you need :P

>>1
Typical jew

ROFL xD

>>1
what's sad is I'm 19 and most of my graduating class has kids, you're not missing out

And if you really can't deal with the stuff in your life, pick up and move. Seriously, you can just end your 'life' and start a new one instead of killing yourself