Feel like I'm stuck

Has anybody ever felt this way in a relationship?

I've been dating my gf for three years and we have an apartment and two dogs together. Lately I have been feeling like she is just my roomate and nothing more. we barely go out(we don't have alot of friends). We used to be very intimate but now we are not. She is not very loving at all anymore. I just feel like its ending but I want to save it but can't. We have two dogs we love very much and if we break up I cannot afford the apartment by myself. I want to talk to her about what I'm feeling but evertime I say something she gets mad and says I am acting stupid.

I feel like my arms are tied behind my back and I have to accept things the way they are. I want to work it out but If I can't then I don't know what to do, because of the apartment, dogs, and the fact I really don't have friends anymore. assuming she is not seeing someone else what can I do to get myself better either with her or without her? Can our relationship be saved?

Can our relationship be saved?
You sound like a goddamn idiot. Why bother to save a bottle of diluted bleach as your only source of water? Drinking it will slowly kill you and make your life worse.

Don't tell me you want to drink bleach, because that's what staying with the wrong person is like. It's just asking for misery, for both you and her.

I find it hard to believe that you'd make excuses that your dogs or your apartment matter when you're thinking about something important as a relationship.

>>2
Speaks the truth. In before stick it in her pooper.

>>3

Stop this now. Just because I am gay gives you no right to stick it in my pooper.

if you've been with her for 3 years
you're gonna miss her a hell a lot if break up but talk to her about it

>>5
EMOFAGGOT!

>>4
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>>7

No you aren't. I am reporting you to the FBI and the Administrator now.

>>5
In other words he let the same mistake go on for a long time and only now is annoyed/panicked enough about it to do something.

Honestly people, there ARE early warning signs. It doesn't suddenly come out of the blue that you "drift" apart and are "not very loving anymore". I hear those things all the time. Note that the word "drifting" implies slow movement, getting progressively further and further away. Relationships do that, they go downhill. Especially when you can't talk about them honestly and openly.

Even if this did just suddenly happen, the basis and foundation of a good relationship--communication and understanding--isn't there.

>>9

maybe he's just insecure

>>10
Insecurity means you're a dumbass who doesn't know how to communicate with the opposite sex. It's not that hard you know.

I've met maybe 3 women in my life who were impossible to deal with, (regrettfully). But that just means that either they're not open to being involved with someone at that point, or for some reason I go against their grain so to speak. Personalities differ, it happens. Point is, if you're unable to speak your mind abotu any fears and the other person does not put you at ease it's gonna be shaky at best.

Early warning signs, people.