Name: Anonymous 2007-07-02 14:25 ID:RdkbtV+M
Has anybody ever felt this way in a relationship?
I've been dating my gf for three years and we have an apartment and two dogs together. Lately I have been feeling like she is just my roomate and nothing more. we barely go out(we don't have alot of friends). We used to be very intimate but now we are not. She is not very loving at all anymore. I just feel like its ending but I want to save it but can't. We have two dogs we love very much and if we break up I cannot afford the apartment by myself. I want to talk to her about what I'm feeling but evertime I say something she gets mad and says I am acting stupid.
I feel like my arms are tied behind my back and I have to accept things the way they are. I want to work it out but If I can't then I don't know what to do, because of the apartment, dogs, and the fact I really don't have friends anymore. assuming she is not seeing someone else what can I do to get myself better either with her or without her? Can our relationship be saved?
I've been dating my gf for three years and we have an apartment and two dogs together. Lately I have been feeling like she is just my roomate and nothing more. we barely go out(we don't have alot of friends). We used to be very intimate but now we are not. She is not very loving at all anymore. I just feel like its ending but I want to save it but can't. We have two dogs we love very much and if we break up I cannot afford the apartment by myself. I want to talk to her about what I'm feeling but evertime I say something she gets mad and says I am acting stupid.
I feel like my arms are tied behind my back and I have to accept things the way they are. I want to work it out but If I can't then I don't know what to do, because of the apartment, dogs, and the fact I really don't have friends anymore. assuming she is not seeing someone else what can I do to get myself better either with her or without her? Can our relationship be saved?