wimminz

A girl I know broke up with her boyfriend that she had been dating for 2 years, started dating another guy the very next day, and posted pictures of herself making out with the new boyfriend all over her myspace.

Her old boyfriend feels like shit. Discuss.

Well, he deserved it.  women are sensitive, beautiful, wonderful flowers, and men are all scum.  They deserve whatever we do to them, because they are lying, cheating assholes, even if they don't know it yet.

this is why the muslims kill us

>>3
LOLZ

pics or didn't happen

Could be worse. Tell him he got away without the rape-charges, the lucky sob. If I were him I'd be crying out of happiness right now.

I'm sick of you femenist shit heads thinking all men are evil. Ofcourse, because the only men who you even acknowledge are the "bad boys" who wear leather jackets and stay out all night getting wasted. You don't even know that the modest, nice guys in the back even exist. So when the assholes eventually pushe you around, you complain that "all men are assholes who only want one thing", when the quiet guys you walk over would treat you like a queen.

Suck on that.

>>7
Oh they will suck on that. The one that pays them the most money that is.

All girls who say "all men suck" are whores. Simple as that. If they ignore the nice guys they lose their right to complain.

>>7
>>8
DAMN STRAIGHT.
I r a wimminz, also. FEMINISTS FUCKING RUIN IT FOR ALL OF US!!! D<

I CAN EXPLAIN THE NICE GUY GETTING IGNORED MYSTERY:

Girl likes Nice Guy.
Girl drops hints like crazy.
Nice Guy is too unobservant to notice OR too shy to respond
Girl assumes Nice Guy is not interested, gives up
Girl is saddened and seeks attention
Asshole gives Girl attention when she's whoring for it
Asshole gets Girl.

Solution: When you think a girl is flirting with you, chances are she is. Ask her out casually, and don't make a big deal about it if she turns you down.

i believe this calls for... *uses TM 666* SPECIAL ATTACK: CUNT PUNT!

>>10
Actually, no. All guys love attention from girls unless they're gay. Normally when a nice guy (basically someone who's shy) gets so much as a "Hello" from a girl he runs off to his friends to ask them if he should ask her out. Usually promptly followed by a "Um, no, I think we should just be friends," as the girl's reply.

A guy can't be too shy to respond. I mean, that would mean that guys get asked out and not the other way around. You think a guy could say no to "Will you go out with me"? Girls either hint so vaguely that it's their own stupid fault, or they never ask a guy out and are alone because of it.

>>12
"A guy can't be too shy to respond" - That's just not true, there are plenty of guys who'd be too shy to respond. Like your example, of a girl just saying "Hello" and he rushes of to ask his friends for advice, well, even if their advice was to ask her out, he might still be too shy to do it. I've met a couple of guys who're really shy, and unable to respond to a cute girl even saying "Hello." They just mumble and smile nervously, if that, and then curse at themselves afterwards for freezing up.

>>12
I wish my nice guy was like you.

>>14
You have a nice guy? Explain, please.

>>13
Essentially what I meant was, anything small and not meaningful still gets taken as interest being shown in them. Otherwise they'd be retards not to enjoy the attention, however small. And shy guys tend to go "ZOMG WOW A GURL TALKLEDED 2 ME." Exaggerating of course, but you get the idea. Shy guys freeze up, but they (almost) never get that lucky to have real attention in the first place.

Furthermore, the example in >>10 was that a girl would drop hints like crazy and then be sad that she's getting ignored. Do girks ever "pursue" with any noticeable effort a guy who isn't a bad boy or at least good looking? Not likely, otherwise you'd see it happening at least once in a while. It's never about what the girl did to get the guy's attention, is it? Unless it's the good looking, asshole of a man.

On the other hand, if the girl "drops hints like crazy" to the nice guy and is too retarded to just come out with it, well, she isn't exactly a bright one, nor deserves sympathy for being alone. Afterall, what adult says "boo hoo 4 me, I don't have a bf/gf :(((" That's for 13 year olds. They're the ones that worry about dropping hints and being shy.

I still freeze up and say stupid things, but I do what >>10 said, I just go on like nothing happened. No big deal if she says no. I don't go turn on Linkin Park after and kick myself for goofing up.

>>15
I *had* a nice guy.
We had known each other for years, but lost contact along the way. It wasn’t until relatively recently that we’d bumped into each other and started to hit off again.
At the time, I knew he liked me, and I would expect that he knew I was interested in him. We got along really well, and we used to talk for hours on end about random topics, played games together (much to the distaste of my friends) and confided in each other. It went on for about a year, dropping hints, flirting, yet it never progressed further than that. It was like you say, we both “worried about dropping hints and being shy”.

However in my defense, he always acted and talked randomly even when he was “flirting” with me, which was only through IM. Even though I knew he was flirting, he did it so outrageously so that you could almost pass it off as a joke (a real turn off). Almost like “let’s have babies!” kind of thing- stuff he’d never say face to face. In real life, he’d be a real gentleman, but super shy, not even wanting to hug me (and I’m not a ‘free hug’ type of person). This dual personality was just covering his ass and it annoyed me. I don’t feel like confessing to a guy who doesn’t express his feelings more sincerely. In the end I just lost interest, couldn’t be bothered etc. Felt like a bitch because since there wasn’t exactly anything to break off, I couldn’t exactly announce/explain my sudden distancing from him.

Wow..I rambled on for a while..

Maybe he was like. I wanna stick it in ur pooper. x40

>>16
Heh, that wasn't rambling, that was an actual explaination, don't worry. And it sounds like that guy deserves to have nothing, if he can't get his act together. If he makes dumb comments that annoy women (I've seen some of my friends do that to girls they "liked") well, he'll have to learn how to avoid that in the future. It might help him if you be honest and say what you didn't like. If it "hurts his feelings" then that's good, he'll know what he did wrong. Otherwise he'll probably just do it again. Men have gotta learn, and women are good teachers, I tell ya. We don't learn it from our friends or fathers.

I don't quite see why you bothered though to use hints and be shy or anything like that. I can tell ya from personal experience when women do that to me it's irritating. I always come right out and say what I like about them, and why. It isn't hard. I have reasons why I like them, so I just speak my mind.
Honesty weighs much easier on the mind.

If I want to say "You know, it'd be great to go out with you sometime" and they're shocked, well, they'll get over it. Either they'll be happy I said it, (maybe they wanted to hear that) or they'll say "Nah, I don't think we should actually date or anything."

In either outcome you've made it known that you like this person, want to get to know them more, and would enjoy doing so. If they have no interest in it, no harm done. Either they're a good enough friend to keep even after that, or they're merely a passing interest and someone you didn't really know that well in the first place.

Make sense? It sounds like that's what happened in your case. You found out eventually he was too immature. But who knows, give him another chance someday, he might have grown up by then. Men do change as they get older/get more experience with women.

Kk. I see.

>>18
Yeah, I’ve always been a strong advocate for honesty when it comes to these things. A lot of my guy friends come to me for advice for their girl problems and I always tell them the straightforward truth (with a little ego padding here and there). However when it comes to my own experiences with guys, I always skirt around, not wanting to offend them. If I asked him to change, it’d be like telling him to “grow up” (harsh?). Instead, whenever he dropped those stupid comments, I’d change the subject, hoping he’d get the hint. Though funnily enough, the ditzy girls in his group were attracted by this same immaturity of his *shrug*.
 
I guess my shyness came from my inexperience with actual relationships. I’ve had guys ask me out, but I’ve never been desperate for love so I’ve never had a boyfriend (I’m 18 btw). Hence, I wasn’t used to being the pursuer. But you were right; if I wanted this to work I should’ve confronted him about it. As it stands, I’m not interested anymore, going out a lot with my friends again, free time, sunny day etc.

He will probably grow out of it…who knows, we have a habit of coming back to each other after a few years. 

Blah blah blah you women are fucking ghey.

you better not be writing this i fuking swear.

Why dont you fucking admit it and AND "AND STATE YOU WERE NEVER INTRESTED YOU FUCK TARD!

ANGST.

>>20
Perhaps I can post my comments and see if the other guys here agree with me.

>>changing the subjct, hoping he gets the hint
Guys suck at getting hints. Subtlety is lost on us, seriously. Bluntness helps us a lot.

>>the ditzy girls in his group were attracted by this same immaturity
Sad, isn't it? But I'm hoping either they'll grow up too, or they'll get along fine with that guy forever. If they're happy, good for them. If, however, a guy does something you don't like just let him know. Guys totally need to hear it directly.

amirite guys?

>>asked him to change, it’d be like telling him to "grow up"
That ain't harsh at all. If you "ask someone to change" it has to be for a reason though, like being involved with them and asking to be treated differently, or else it's useless. Guys often have no interest in changing themselves. At best, in my experience, my guy friends only do things to "make their girlfriends happy," and that's it. No real interest in genuine change.

Us guys really are simple. So I doubt there's much need to worry about having experience with relationships. What do you guys think? I'm a pretty simple guy myself. I don't ask for, or want much. In fact I'd go so far as to say I'm proud to be simple and straightforward, therefore equalling "easily understood."
Honesty ftw.