>>14
You have a nice guy? Explain, please.
>>13
Essentially what I meant was, anything small and not meaningful still gets taken as interest being shown in them. Otherwise they'd be retards not to enjoy the attention, however small. And shy guys tend to go "ZOMG WOW A GURL TALKLEDED 2 ME." Exaggerating of course, but you get the idea. Shy guys freeze up, but they (almost) never get that lucky to have real attention in the first place.
Furthermore, the example in
>>10 was that a girl would drop hints like crazy and then be sad that she's getting ignored. Do girks ever "pursue" with any noticeable effort a guy who isn't a bad boy or at least good looking? Not likely, otherwise you'd see it happening at least once in a while. It's never about what the girl did to get the guy's attention, is it? Unless it's the good looking, asshole of a man.
On the other hand, if the girl "drops hints like crazy" to the nice guy and is too retarded to just come out with it, well, she isn't exactly a bright one, nor deserves sympathy for being alone. Afterall, what adult says "boo hoo 4 me, I don't have a bf/gf :(((" That's for 13 year olds. They're the ones that worry about dropping hints and being shy.
I still freeze up and say stupid things, but I do what
>>10 said, I just go on like nothing happened. No big deal if she says no. I don't go turn on Linkin Park after and kick myself for goofing up.