I have been chatting to this chick online right. And well, i really like her, altho she is half the world away, literally. See i loook forward to her coming online, think about her a tons etc etc. She has already stated how much she likes me so the bacon is there for the making. However there is no way i can go there for ages and no way she can come here either. So i dunno what to do, and i have never indulged in on line faggotry before so i just dunno what to do.
>>there is no way i can go there for ages and no way she can come here either.
That won't matter. Not one person in the world takes an online "relationship" seriously. First chance they get, they'll take a person who lives them over you. Don't bother listening to them when they say that isn't true. The people with the best of intentions always give in. And I mean always.
Out of everyone I talk to this has been their experience. And some people have been heavily involved with each other, some knew each other before, or were together for a while. Once it becomes (or starts as) long distance, it's over. Completely over.
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Anonymous2006-09-18 19:02
>>5
Maybe because "I have a boyfriend... well, long distance," screws you over. They say, well not here or not right now. Any guy will move in when they hear that, and she'll just go along with it.
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Anonymous2006-09-18 21:10
so i'm fucked basically and should just do wut?
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Anonymous2006-09-18 21:16
>>7
gradually act more and more depressed when you talk to her. start talking to her about death poems, etc, and then leave her a death note saying you're about to blow your brains out, and after that, never talk to her again.
problem solved.
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Anonymous2006-09-18 21:21
>>8
dude, i like her tho, so i dont want to be a dick.
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Anonymous2006-09-18 21:23
>>9
dude, anonymous is a total bastard. stop lying.
>>9
Follow >>8's suggestion AFTER she turns on you. People who treat others like shit deserve to feel like shit for it.
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Anonymous2006-09-19 3:07
The next time you talk to her, say, "I have something I need to tell you. I haven't been completely honest with you. The truth is, I am one fat dude who loves the cock, and my man-boobs are so huge you could squeeze them and milk would squirt out. WOOOOOOOOOOOO! *pulls his sweaty shirt off and spins it around in the air*"
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Anonymous2006-09-19 9:40
Just tell her that online relationships wont work.
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Anonymous2006-09-19 10:23
is there really no hope then? Cause i srsly do like her you know.
>>18
You know as fucked as that sounds, it might well be a very good idea
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Anonymous2006-09-19 17:03
I know someone who did it, and it worked, although some country-related laws forbid this person to live there, she comes back and forth betwenn her home country and his country, so she is legally seeing him, but she's a Canadian citizen even though she lives most of the time at his place in USA.
Could be useful for you to check it and make up the necessary things before doing anything reckless.
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Anonymous2006-09-19 18:50
>>19
I'm being serious, don't bother. Unless she tells you that's what she really wants. I bet even >>20 will be screwed up someday if they don't spend enough time together. It's just too rare for people to stick to someone that's far away. Everyone is so weak willed that they just give in to whoever is close by, and the person they once knew or even loved doesn't mean much to them anymore.
See, the problem is, it's easy to ignore someone that isn't right next to you. Without seeing someone those "feelings" aren't there. People change their minds at the drop of a hat because they suddenly "feel" something for this new person they meet. I've seen it happen with every long distance relationship of all my friends, everyone I've talked to and my own experience.
The only chance you'd have is if she wanted you to come there and was asking you to do that.
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Anonymous2006-09-19 19:09
she has been asking, quite a bit....
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Anonymous2006-09-19 19:13
>>22
Then go into some more detail. Then after talking about it with some random guys on the internet (lol) ask her about what will happen if she suddenly changes her mind one day. Then, report back with the exact words she uses. Us anonymouses shall pick it apart and look for clues as to how likely it is.
And finally, 6 months down the road you'll come back here and say "Yeah, you guys were right, she just dumped me flat on my ass, even when I was on my way to moving there next thursday."
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Anonymous2006-09-19 19:14
kill urself LOL that might probably solve it LOL you are probably fat
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Anonymous2006-09-19 19:55
>>23
maybe i should just stay at home and fap over some more jay bee
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Anonymous2006-09-20 6:45
;_;
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Anonymous2006-09-20 20:05
I know someone thats been in a LDR for over a year, hes flying there next week to move in with her..
But most are doomed to fail, so im not meaning to get your hopes up