I forgive you.
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Just like in illusional magic stage-play:
Humor is a passive-aggressive expression of hate.
"One can laugh about everything, but not with everybody".
There is a limit to how far you can go and how real it is.
Not only is the context important, but where it's presented.
If the hate is too obvious and the comedian is serious, the audience boos.
The older the incident is than the audience is and the less related the victims are to the audience, the less likely that it will be real enough for them to believe that the past really sucked that bad.
The point of comedy is to build tension and then shock the audience into laughter by saying something outrageous is one well defined way to do it. You can dance by the unacceptable but not embrace it.
The stage is supposed to be a safe and entertaining place. If the audience has to worry about getting shot or raped by: actors, authoritative figures and/or other audience members:: then the show loses it's value and fewer people fund it.