Hentai objectification vs instinct

The questionability of women portrayed as being used only for sex, and the human desire to use women only for sex.  Both go against our "civilized" mindset, yet are natural feelings.  Perhaps this conflict between what we see as lawfully or ethically right vs what we see as naturally or instinctively right, is what makes hentai so powerful a combination. 

In other words, how can this be wrong when it feels so right? 

Me = girl who faps to yaoi, occasionally browses /d/

/d/ and /h/ are no worse than /y/. It's all natural so long as you don't go around raping people IRL. I figure porn provides an important societal release valve for all the screwed up fantasies people create.

Otherwise it's "three cheers for repressed sexuality!"

BTW, why is this on /sci/? It's more ethics, really...