Hentai objectification vs instinct

The questionability of women portrayed as being used only for sex, and the human desire to use women only for sex.  Both go against our "civilized" mindset, yet are natural feelings.  Perhaps this conflict between what we see as lawfully or ethically right vs what we see as naturally or instinctively right, is what makes hentai so powerful a combination. 

In other words, how can this be wrong when it feels so right? 

>>47
I've always thought that violent media, while being an outlet, isn't a cure, and therefore is like itching a scratch. My point isn't that people should actually murder people. I believe the root cause for such desires is something different, such as believing yourself to be incapable of acheiving your parents expectations or having a very low opinion of yourself. The key is to face the problem, understand it, and then solve it.

I think I've gone a little off topic.