Programming OR Sex?

Actually, you could just pick both. Start washing more often than once a ^_month, wear deodorant, get rid of excess facial hair, start frequenting the local swimming pool, do your laundry more often, stop buying shitty food and clean your damn room. These combined shouldn't take more than 2-3h/day, if done correctly.

Now that you've completed initialization, go talk to women. Don't fear rejection, for not all receptacles match your codan. ``Dating tips'' should be available all over the Internet, though correct social conduct should be a reflex. If you believe your connections are being refused due to improper social conduct, please unintelligible a supervisor. Eventually you'll succeed in finding an appropriate partner, and you shall thus enjoy both programming and sex (and if your partner is really understanding, you might even be able to do both at the same time!).

>>12
Disregarding the fact that you're posting to the wrong board, in a society where monogamy is predominant and the ratio between the number of attractive and available females and the number of so-called ``alpha males'' is much superior to one, even in a worst-case scenario in which all every ``alpha male'' has one partner there will still be lots of available and attractive potential partners left.

As for the ``my girlfriend dumped me for ``cooldude.jpg'' '' cliché, when it actually happens (assuming that you are in a relationship with the aforementioned girlfriend) it's either because you screwed up something in the relationship (thereby leaving your partner dissatisfied and looking for another), or maybe your partner simply has value- and logic-related issues and likely doesn't deserve you. It is either a chance for future improvement, or simply a life lesson into picking your partners more carefully.

>>11
I come from Eastern Europe and some girls do appreciate it. Then again, YMMV.