Pay attention to my help thread

Hi /prog/. I'd like to get into programming. However, every time I try this I always start learning the wrong kind and/or the program I use likes to be a dick. I want to learn SPECIFICALLY for building game engines and the like. Can someone give me a step by step plan on which guides and tutorials to read first, which already created engines to fuck around with after I've learned a bit, etc? Also an opinion on which compiling/editing software to use for an absolute beginner would be great.

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>>2-san didn't answer the original question. He merely suggested that an absolute beginner should start from the absolute beginning. It is polite to sage if you don't add to the discussion. Why do you take an honest comment as an attack?