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I'm going with this on the assumption that we can use "normal" as "majority group of people with same general moral belief systems/personality traits/interests/habits"
You do not fit this definition of normal in any reasonable way. It is only fitting that you should be repelled by the activities of "normal" people. Thus, you must socialize with people outside of the norm, e.g. 4chan and what I pray are at least a few friends that you've picked up along the way.
The problem here is not the world. It is you. You would be lamenting saloons if you were living in the 19th century American West, or pubs in the Ireland of the 1920's. Ever read James Joyce's "Dubliners"? He reminds me of you because he writes a thousand short stories describing your own feelings of agitation. He left Ireland eventually.
YOU need to do something about it- as in, the burden is on YOU to find other men (and god forbid, women) with whom you can relate, since you are so picky. Why am I telling you this? Because you've been bitching for years. How can you do it? You need to look around. Why should you bother? Because we both know that deep down you value human companionship, or else you wouldn't even bother to post here.
Feel free to ignore my post, like you've ignored every other response I've given to your threads.