all the guys in my class have already fucked, except the fat kid and me. i'm almost 17, time is running out for me and it scares me to death. i think there is something seriously wrong with me. what should i do???
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Anonymous2012-06-26 4:39
Running out? Do you think your cock is going to fall off? I don't know why we raise kids these days to make screwing the goal in life, when having a sweetheart is so much nicer in life. Someone to hold tight and squeeze, to feel the softness, to feel the love, the need, the feeling of being exactly the opposite of being alone in life. But no, everyone is made so self-centered that the cock rules all, and whoever dangles on the end of it is a mere afterthought, and interchangeable with all the other several billions whores.
Stop thinking there's something wrong with you. Treat yourself with the respect you deserve and work toward goals that are important to you. Haters gonna hate, give as few fucks as you can. If you live the kind of life that fulfills you, getting laid will happen almost by itself.
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Anonymous2012-06-26 9:04
You're fucked, and it's only going to get worse.
Yes, you will die a virgin. How do I know? You're posting here.
But you haven't even STARTED to really suffer, so enjoy your life while you still can.
Being a male virgin at 17 is uncomfortable. At 20, it's awkward and unseemly. At 25, it's downright painful, and from 30 onward, it's a real hell. Loneliness will literally make you mad, and I am not trolling. In fact, I am talking from experience.
Maybe you still have a chance. I don't know. But when I was your age I already knew I was fucked. Have you ever had a meaningful relationship with a girl? Held hands? Hell, hugged a girl? I hadn't. I'd wager you haven't either. In fact, you probably used to idolize women. You couldn't talk to them. You acted too polite, like a virgin trying too hard, and you came off as creepy. If you had a crush, it was years of looking at her from afar, trying to tell yourself that even though she was going to marry another guy, have sex with other people, fall in love with someone who wasn't you, even though it hurt so much not being able to do anything about it, you told yourself that you REALLY loved her; selfless love; being happy for her if she was happy, even if that meant she'd be with another guy who you figured wouldn't love her as much as you did. It meant expressly holding back from confessing your love, and not only because it was obvious you would get turned down. Anyway, some people will say that this is a coward's love, and I say these people can go get repeatedly raped by horses, even if they're mostly right.
I went off on a tangent, but listen now.
There is never going to be that beautiful wife waiting for you when you come home. There is never going to be those passionate nights of love-making, there's never going to be a dinner at a nice restaurant with a date, there's never going to be that first kiss, that first time having sex. There is never going to be any of those things for you. Let that sink in.
You will only know regret and remorse, loneliness and madness, doubt and despair. You will denounce all women as degenerate, immoral, worthless whores. Sure, deep down, you'll know it's not true. Because you're rather intelligent, you'll know that this sort of prejudice is unscientific and ultimately destructive. But it won't matter; loneliness doesn't care for your reasons, or your reason. And besides, if you're anything like us, chances are you're still a hopeless romantic at heart, who plays his eroge to hear the girls says "I love you". Years of rejection and isolation will only exacerbate that part of your personality.
Then you will come to accept your condition for a short time. Loneliness wil rush over you sometimes, like a wave, then recede again. Once in a while you'll get a tsunami-sized one that'll wrench your heart out and smash it onto the rocks. You'll have nights where you howl with anguish and desolation.
Ultimately, you will come to loathe the 3D world, while those very same normalfags you hide from will conquer your last refuge and home, namely the internet. There will come a time when you feel you have nowhere to run to anymore. And that will be the end.
Hopefully by this time some of my fellow anons and I will be waiting for you in Gensokyo.
I'm a 19 year old virgin and no fucks given here. Sure, you don't get younger but just live a responsible and enjoyable life. Not many average people really care if you're a virgin, and the ones who really do are usually grade-A assholes that I really don't give a shit about.