For me, my biggest turn on is hairy women. I love girls that don't shave their legs. Unfortunately it's very uncommon in America, and those that do are fat. However, the hottest woman I have ever met had hairy legs, and she always wore shorts, and god damn.
Thankfully, unshaved armpits and pubic hair is more common than unshaved legs. It's usually embraced by hot chicks too. Of course, most of them are either lesbians or feminists.
>>37
I know it's not too late. I'm just mustering up some courage until I go out into the real world again.
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!L33tUKZj5I2012-01-09 4:10
>>41 Don't leave it on long dude. I'll let you into a secret, I get social anxiety a lot too and find it hard to talk to strangers. My solution is to drink, but I can't really recommend that to anyone as I'm an alcoholic. Here's another thing, out of the girls I've slept with, most were through meeting them through mutual friends or the internet. Since I moved cities a couple of years ago, I've had less of a social circle to find women through, in fact it's been two years since I met a girl and fucked her who wasn't from the internet. A third of relationships start that way these days anyway with facebook etc so it isn't such a stigma. This is good for you, as you seem like an articulate fellow, and you can come across as a cool person over the net before you meet, which will make them want to meet you. I'd say stay away from instant messaging shit though as you can still have awkward silences on it. That's what I do anyway...stick to inboxing where you have time to think up a witty reply. Also, don't be put off if your first try fails. It's a numbers game.
>>42
Well, thanks for the advice. I too like to drink my nervousness away, although I cannot really call myself an alcoholic, my only addiction is coffee. As for the socializing, first things first, I need to get myself a job, build up friendships, and then I guess I'll take it from there. You seem like a genuinely good guy despite all the seeming hatred on /lounge/.
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Anonymous2012-01-09 4:37
>>42
I'm not the person you're conversing with, but I am intrigued and would like to subscribe to your newsletter. Speaking of "bagging girls", I was told once by a friend that the so-called "secret" to getting girls is simply "telling them what they want to hear". My problem (and I'm sure most people on here who browse world4ch) is that I'm not sure what exactly that entails; what the fuck do they really want to hear?
My damn phone posted to the wrong thread and doesn't have copy and paste, if someone could paste the reply in here to keep the coherency of the thread I would be grateful.
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!L33tUKZj5I2012-01-09 5:00
>>43 Well, at least you have a plan for the future anon, that's good. Just because you don't have a job now though don't let that stop you from messaging girls and talking to them, it'll be good to get the practise in. Some won't care about your employment status if you can connect with them well enough. I haven't had a job in eight years! This hasn't stopped me, although in my twenties I used to rely on the whole 'I'm in a band' shit. There's always an angle though. You're writing a novel, you're a budding artist, hell any old shit will work if you're young. I'm currently coasting on being a mature student and the fact that I'll be going into teaching abroad when I get my degree. Might not even happen, but if you're in your thirties you have to have a better line in bullshit than being in a band or being a poet. If you're young you don't even need that crap, they don't expect you to have found your way yet.
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!L33tUKZj5I2012-01-09 5:00
>>43 Well, at least you have a plan for the future anon, that's good. Just because you don't have a job now though don't let that stop you from messaging girls and talking to them, it'll be good to get the practise in. Some won't care about your employment status if you can connect with them well enough. I haven't had a job in eight years! This hasn't stopped me, although in my twenties I used to rely on the whole 'I'm in a band' shit. There's always an angle though. You're writing a novel, you're a budding artist, hell any old shit will work if you're young. I'm currently coasting on being a mature student and the fact that I'll be going into teaching abroad when I get my degree. Might not even happen, but if you're in your thirties you have to have a better line in bullshit than being in a band or being a poet. If you're young you don't even need that crap, they don't expect you to have found your way yet.
>>44 This depends on the woman, but the important thing is to LISTEN. Women love to talk, so just let them, a few well placed questions will have her rambling for a while. Look out for when she smiles while talking about stuff, this is a good sign that it's a subject she will enjoy talking about, which means she is having fun with you. {cont}
>>45 >>46 >>47
Well, the job is not just to impress girls, I literally don't know anyone outside my close relatives so getting a job will help me in getting to know a few people, or so I think. But yeah, I hear you, thanks for the tips.
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!L33tUKZj5I2012-01-09 5:27
{cont}third time lucky typing in this comment, fuck you phone. Ok, if she is pretty but kinda dumb, find a way to compliment her intelligence. She knows she is pretty, she's heard it from every guy she knows since she was ten years old, going on a meta level is more likely to create a bond. If she is plain but very intelligent, find a way to compliment her looks. She isn't used to that either, you will seen different to other guys. If she is pretty and smart, again compliment her brain. Everyone has told her she is hot, she knows. Above all BE FUNNY. What I said about looking out for her smiling, this is important. everyone loves to laugh, but it's a great seduction tool. The more she is smiling the better, that means she's having a good time with you. Oh, and if she's plain and dumb, what the fuck are you doing son! walk away.
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!L33tUKZj5I2012-01-09 5:29
>>50 good for you, best reason to get a job anyway. You're alright man, as soon as you can find a woman she'll be lucky to have you.
>>49,51
Thanks, I appreciate the advice. A problem would be just getting a conversation started, but sometimes I have had chances (like the other guy you were talking to) and ended up not taking advantage of it (being the shy moron that I am), but I am fond of the alcohol, so that's not a problem for me.
>>66
There's something like 9 different threads entitled "fail. GTFO", the second posts of which are of good quality, and one was made with the tripcode K-Series!uVdLP5AWJg which made nothing but shitty posts. I am skeptical that these are your 10 recent posts, especially since they're so far apart in time to each other. I will then deduct from this that IHBT.
>>67
Don't let >>66 fool you, he's not >>63 , I am. And my last ten (10) posts are none of your concern. If they are to be judged upon their quality, then only moot herself, in her infinite wisdom, has the power to do so. Besides, I never bump shitty threads.
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!L33tUKZj5I2012-01-10 18:48
>>59
Ok man. I'd advise you if at all possible to not use alcohol as a crutch in social situations. I can't socialise whatsoever without it anymore, so I go from being a shutin and not talking to anyone to a mad drunk who talks to everyone, which isn't really the best solution. You probably have more restraint than me though.
>>60 No, he's the only decent poster on world4ch left.
Very kind of you, but nowhere near the truth. Anonymous is the best poster here. Apart from this guy >>61.
I take offence to that, I'm a grate poster.
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