An anonymous friend of mine just called.

If a girls is so pissed at you that she ignores you, staring at the wall or something, and you have sex with her during this time, is it rape?
Is it abusing a state of powerlessness?
Could she go "Well, your honor, I was just TOO MAD at him to say no or do anything about him having sex with me."?

Doesn't matter.  So, where's this bitch at

destroy her anus

She's not powerless if she has the power to completely ignore you fucking her, therefore not rape.