beat the pussy out of your boys

I don't meant physically beat your boys, because you do that for disobedience, not for building him up.  It's just an expression.

So my boy comes home from a ball game, and he says he did OK but his friend got more hits.  He was starting to sound like a pussy so I told him to stop being a fag.

I agree, but a little rude there.

break out a god damn baseball bat on him
beat the shit out of him until he's better than his friend