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none of us can be real adults

Name: Anonymous 2010-04-30 13:58

Does anyone on here actually feel like they are a fully-developed grown up? Does anyone feel like they have gone any further than that "Mommy, what's the F-word?" mentality. I have noticed that pretty much every virgin over the age of 19, if he's not really creepy, he'll have an odd bone, if not creepy, he'll be like a howdy-doody boy scout type. All of these are versions of manchildren. I don't know if it's possible for us to hide this badge of humiliation. We need to think of ways.

Discuss.

Name: Anonymous 2010-04-30 14:01

Sometimes it feels like I'm not even human. Some days I wake up and try not to remind myself that I'm a virgin living in a basement (yeah I know it's cliche). At least it's not my mom's basement. I'm kind of renting it out from my uncle right now.

It's not so much the big things, like I'm 39 and working as a cashier and have no other job experience, or that I drive a 1985 Dodge Aries (and who knows for how much longer), or I've never gotten laid, I've never dated, every "friend" I've ever had was just out to take advantage of me, it's the little things. Like, at least real adults can pick up after themselves and do laundry. I mean I do that now but when I do it it gets to be a project, to where I have to spend the better part of the day picking up garbage and some of it is half-eaten food. Or I realize I've been wearing the same clothes for days on end and I have no clean laundry. A lot of times I'll fall asleep on the couch and just wear the same clothes I wore yesterday. Real adults nevr have to wear the "B-side" of their underwear. I let shit pile up for too long. I mean a real adult would be able to wash dishes and there would be no empty beer cans cluttering up the counter and they wouldn't find puke in the sink and not be able to remember the specifics about it.

Every day at work when I look at customers who are clean and happy and sober, I think, there's somebody who's more successful than me. There's a homeless guy who comes in to buy cigarettes or a soda sometimes and I'm pretty sure he's gotten laid, so at least he has that going for him.

Name: Anonymous 2010-04-30 14:07

you know... i feel like i haven't fucking grown up yet at 23. i feel in a sense that having sex and getting a girlfriend would actually lead me on the road to growth. you know... i get REALLY REALLY REALLY heated when i see these people younger than me getting theirs in. they done fucked 30 people already. they have their own car. they're bigger than me and i'm older than them. i don't appreciate that shit. i feel in a sense disrespected like some young folks half my age, 2 years younger than me, all trying to act like they're above me so fuck them. that makes ME want to get violent with them to prove a point that they HAVE to respect mine or i will beat it out of them or worse. if i had the opportunity, i probably would hurt one of them to the point where i'd leave them traumatized for life.

Name: Anonymous 2010-04-30 14:08

Jackson 4 GET

Name: Anonymous 2010-04-30 14:08

>>4
NEVER 4 GET ;_;

Name: Anonymous 2010-04-30 15:08

These copied comments are stupid.  Would they think that a 12yearold fucker is a man?  The guys are way to self-conscious.  No one gives a shit about your dick.  Anyone who isn't living in the 1970s using the word "laid" is just a doofus that smart woman should avoid.  I would gladly provide cockblocking services to protect chicks from these guys.

Name: Anonymous 2010-04-30 15:25

those are copied?

Name: Anonymous 2010-04-30 15:38

>>7
Loungers are too laid back to emo out like that.

Name: Anonymous 2010-04-30 16:32

i dont know if these are kopipe or not but i will respond anyways.

>>1
i think that there are no men in our soceity anymore, all that is left are either cowards that try to hide from truths that exist and just live a "normal life" or greedy, lying, selfsufficient bastards that spend their time on meaningless pleasures to cover their own emptyness. we live in a world where the real men have been replaced by cowardly drones that spend their life as slaves. where once powerfull, great and wise men who led armies to victories, created nations and were just and kind have been replaced by shallow and weak ignorants who care for nothing but their own profit, without knowing how to waste it.
it lies in our natur to fight and even to kill sometimes, but now we live in a world where we cannot utilize our primoral instincts and we all suffer from it, we become weak and will over time degenerate.

there are no "adults", only children playing adult.

Name: Anonymous 2010-04-30 20:37

Same is it ever was.

Name: Anonymous 2010-04-30 20:52

>>9
that's just war glorification shit

Name: Anonymous 2010-04-30 23:28

>>9
shallow and weak ignorants who care for nothing but their own profit,
greedy, lying, selfsufficient bastards that spend their time on meaningless pleasures to cover their own emptyness
That sounds like the type of lazy asshole that would want to "utilize [his] primoral instincts" like a worthless animal. The whole point of being human is to rise above that shit. You are trying to justify being an ape-like idiot by calling those who use their brains weak and pathetic. For shame.

Name: Anonymous 2010-05-01 0:59

I'm 23 and a virgin..  however, I have an MBA and make $50,000 a year..  does that still not make me a real adult?

Name: Anonymous 2010-05-01 2:38

>>13

nope

fag

Name: Anonymous 2010-05-01 4:16

>>2
Have you thought of taking medication to make you feel better in the short term?

Name: Anonymous 2010-05-01 4:24

>>12
That sounds like the type of lazy asshole that would want to "utilize [his] primoral instincts" like a worthless animal. The whole point of being human is to rise above that shit. You are trying to justify being an ape-like idiot by calling those who use their brains weak and pathetic. For shame.

that is certainly not what i wanted to say, what i wanted to say is that we have primoral instincts and that if we dont utilize they will come above the surface one way or the other.

and i never talked about people using their brain for effective progress, i talked about the people who use their "brain" to use and manipulate people to gain pleasures that only stimulate their primoral needs excescivly.

now what i actualy wanted to say, but i didnt came to, was that we live in a world where our primitive instincts are no good, yet they still prevail, then the paradox is that why this world should exist in the firstplace?
sure it might seem nice on the surface, but lets face it: we are becoming powerless drones, living meaningless lifes and if we should ever gain any meaning people will use us for their own selfish needs.

but sometimes i question myself if it really was diffrent back then, it seem that the history of menkind is defined by suffering and this always was and maybe will.

Name: Anonymous 2010-05-01 23:53

>>16
i question myself if it really was diffrent back then
Of course it wasn't. Everything that is bad about society is an outgrowth of humans' base instincts. Greed and cruelty and domination and laziness. We should be trying to rise above these "primoral instincts" not hold them up as the markings of real men. Gaining power over your own life requires you to be better than a mere drone tied to his desire for dominance and "glory".

Name: Anonymous 2010-05-01 23:55

Why am I on this earth ?, I dont know how to answer that question. I see people who are married with kids and have to wonder is that what I realy want. I have three brothers and two of them have settled down and have kids. My younger brother and i share a two bedroom apartment. My younger brother dates people on and off. Me on the other hand I have never had a relationship. Ill be 28 this summer. I find myself in love with the idea of being in love. For the most part Im happy with being single. I do go through phases where I am lonely. My family has expressed concern about me being single. Some times there efforts to fix the situation just makes it so much more awkward. I do think about the future sometimes. My parents will eventualy pass away and my brothers will be settled down with familys. I will be living by myself. It is sorta scary to think ill be alone. Am I just fooling myself by saying I like the single life. If I dont like the single life, am I realy willing to do what it takes to be in a relationship. Relationships are alot of work and so is raising kids. With the divorce rate at fifty percent, half the happy couples I see together will be split. Ive sorta delveloped a cynical view on love and the opposite sex in general. Why cant life be simple?

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