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If you're looking for a decent flash streaming (I.E. Youtube style sites) site, I'd recommend PornHub (
http://www.pornhub.com/) Great site, lots of amature stuff that used to be very popular on youporn before they became idiots and decided to take a stroll down fail road. (Although I still do see some nice gems there from time to time) I recommend registering before they begin to suck as well.
Redtube is fine too (
http://www.redtube.com)
Everything else I suggest you learn to BitTorrent and Emule and Gnutella. Hell maybe even Usenet!
Hope this helps!