Has anyone here 'soaked' before?

So my girlfriend is a very religious individual, and while I respect her beliefs a great deal, the sexual tension in our relationship is building. We are afraid of losing control, and she really wants to be a virgin when she gets married.

Her latest suggestion is that we just 'soak'. I'd never heard the term before, but I guess it's exactly as it sounds. I would apparently put my erect penis into her vagina, but stop there. Instead of proceeding to thrust my manhood, I would 'soak' in her vagina, thus being intimate sexually, without her losing her virginity.


I guess you could call it 'virgin sex', because she gets to keep her virginity, only I'm really worried that once I am unleashed, I won't be able to simply soak, and there wouldn't be naught but hymns left to sing of her hymen. I guess we would call them Hymnens.


What should I do?

It's not rape if it's already in the vag.  Just keep thrusting until you nut in her.  Then yank it out and wipe it on her stomach.

stick it in her pooper

I'm pretty sure that as soon as you put your penis inside her vagina, she's no longer a virgin.  Just because her hymen is intact doesn't change that.

what the fuck is this bullshit

read gnosis, as long as u never come in her, the feminine yoni (vagina, vulva) is 'intact' , but one single sperm may still escape, if you reach ecstasy and are able to not release inside, or at all, as it is taught. so beware of a possible 'virgin birth'.. see it all makes sense now = "he never came in me" and stuff. the woman really believes it is a miracle.

what the fuck is this bullshit