Name: Anonymous 2008-05-23 4:08
I finally let him cross out of the friend zone when, in mid-April, I realized that I refused to even attempt a relationship with anyone nearby because I felt like I would be cheating on him. It was an emotional night, and we've been together lovingly ever since. It's been about a month and a half now.
The problem is that I feel lonely. In none of my relationships, I've actually been in contact with my boyfriend. But this time, it is different. We actually have a plan to meet up that can and will work. But that's not good enough. I've never truly felt safe. Not in over a decade. What I truly yearn for is just to be hugged... to actually feel safe once in my life. I feel I can wait for him though, but a small part of me is unsure.
Now the reason I actually said all of this:
What should I do? I'm in a good relationship online that would probably go off real well in real life. But there are other possibilities. There are other guys living in the same city I live in, but the guys I've met, despite their words (I'll keep you safe, etc.), it just seems they just want a good fuck. I'm still a virgin, and for some paranoid reason, I want to keep it until it's with that right person. What should I do?
tl;dr - Kept my current bf in friend zone for a while; relationship is long-distance; asking for advice
The problem is that I feel lonely. In none of my relationships, I've actually been in contact with my boyfriend. But this time, it is different. We actually have a plan to meet up that can and will work. But that's not good enough. I've never truly felt safe. Not in over a decade. What I truly yearn for is just to be hugged... to actually feel safe once in my life. I feel I can wait for him though, but a small part of me is unsure.
Now the reason I actually said all of this:
What should I do? I'm in a good relationship online that would probably go off real well in real life. But there are other possibilities. There are other guys living in the same city I live in, but the guys I've met, despite their words (I'll keep you safe, etc.), it just seems they just want a good fuck. I'm still a virgin, and for some paranoid reason, I want to keep it until it's with that right person. What should I do?
tl;dr - Kept my current bf in friend zone for a while; relationship is long-distance; asking for advice