thinking about trying anal, advice needed

im meeting up with another 4channer tonight and we were talking about doing anal sex. what lube works best? i was thinking of the lube that gets warm when applied. also id like to have more control over the sex so have any of you guys tried anal while being on top? i dont want to go all out until i know it doesnt hurt.

any advice would be good but make it quick please.

it feels best without lube. hearing their screams when i penerate. oh im getting horny thinking about it.

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