how do you do it?

Had to deal with another case of unrequited love... another case that proved that pretty much all the good women are taken. I wish I could be completely asexual and ignorant to romantic love. For some odd reason, despite all the existential depression and times I've been screwed over... I still feel the lonliness and disconnect that comes with being single for almost 20 years. No matter how many times I masturbate a day... the desire is still there. I try to distract myself by working too hard and the like... doesn't work. Makes it worse.

So... I wanna know, if you're single, asexual, and/or w/o said desire... how do you do it? How do you deal with it all? Maybe I need a few new ideas...

So...

All the good women aren't taken, you just aren't looking hard enough. Also, true love doesn't come from just attraction. You could love someone, go out with them, and find out that you have nothing in common with each other.

What I recommend is that instead of suffering though the pains of unrequited love, instead of focusing on love in GENERAL, calm down and start talking to any girl you come in contact with. Just talk, nothing more. When you put too much focus on your expectations, failure is not an option. When you just talk, it really doesn't matter how things go. Lose all the emphasis on romance and just start with being more friendly and open. Everything else will come later.