Name: Anonymous 2007-09-04 11:40 ID:/dmCp5Wi
I started to be keen on getting a girlfriend when I was 15 - it all started just because of walking around the town and seeing half of my classmates with their "partners". The main problem in those times was that I used to be a loner, that's the reason why I had a terrible depression for about 3 years.
At the end of highschool I began to change myself radically, at the beginning I was the silent and nearly never-talking dude, but then It looked like I'd mutated into one of the most talkative people at school. And still there was the same problem with girls - sure, I had some nice girls in class, but they all had boyfriends (nothing unusual when you're eightteen).
It all went like that until I started to study at the university. The first months went quite good - I met some very nice girls, went to some dates, but after realizing that those dates were actually pointless - imagine walking around with a person for hours and you see that she's not the one you'd like to be together with or she wouldn't be willing to be together with me - I just decided to do everything just not to have to think about girls again.
Now I'm making electronic music, writing poems, drawing, or sometimes just getting drunk like crazy in some bar with some friends (ok, that's not that positive)...
The only thing I wanted to ask is - in what way you organized your life when you found your love? Were you looking for a girl/boy friend?
I've always heard that I don't have to think about finding a girlfriend, and then everything will be fine and you'll meet THE ONE. Hey, I haven't been thinking about girls for nearly 2 years and I still haven't got any further than being somehow a teddy bear for some girls...
At the end of highschool I began to change myself radically, at the beginning I was the silent and nearly never-talking dude, but then It looked like I'd mutated into one of the most talkative people at school. And still there was the same problem with girls - sure, I had some nice girls in class, but they all had boyfriends (nothing unusual when you're eightteen).
It all went like that until I started to study at the university. The first months went quite good - I met some very nice girls, went to some dates, but after realizing that those dates were actually pointless - imagine walking around with a person for hours and you see that she's not the one you'd like to be together with or she wouldn't be willing to be together with me - I just decided to do everything just not to have to think about girls again.
Now I'm making electronic music, writing poems, drawing, or sometimes just getting drunk like crazy in some bar with some friends (ok, that's not that positive)...
The only thing I wanted to ask is - in what way you organized your life when you found your love? Were you looking for a girl/boy friend?
I've always heard that I don't have to think about finding a girlfriend, and then everything will be fine and you'll meet THE ONE. Hey, I haven't been thinking about girls for nearly 2 years and I still haven't got any further than being somehow a teddy bear for some girls...