Name: Anonymous 2007-09-04 5:51 ID:/4ltE6cN
I want to tell you all about something I did last week...and would like some input...
There is this girl that i work with, I have known her for about a year...we work closely with each other....From the moment we started talking we became fast friends and after a couple months i started to have feelings for her...
I know she likes me as a person and a friend, but as usual i have been thrown into the "friend zone".....
She has been with some guy off/on for about two years now, and the guy has told her that he does not love her, and cannot accept her other than a friend...but she is STILL hanging on to this guy...
we have become so close as friends now, and she knows i have feelings for her...we talk and talk for hours about our feelings and our lives....I have never in my 38 years wanted someone like i want her....SHE KNOWS this and has even told me that i am a better guy than ANYONE she has ever had in her life...
yet still, i am in this DAMN FRIEND ZONE!!!
the past few months have been a real roller coaster ride...one day we are so close and the next i am so pissed off at her i dont speak for a week or two...Ive poured my heart and soul out to her, given her every ounce of my heart, helped her emotionally, financially and every way you could imagine....
I am very physically attracted to her but it goes much deeper than that.....even though we have never even as much as held hands, i think i love her....is that even possible??????
I have ridden this emotional roller coaster for a year now and last week i just had enough.....
I did the most heart wrenching thing i could do..... I ended my friendship with her...told her that i cannot continue to be her friend and have these feelings for her...It has become even painful when she is talking to me as a "FRIEND"...and having to hear how the guy she is seeing is neglecting her and pushing her away
one of the hardest thing for a guy to do is to be stuck in this friend zone with a girl he as feelings for....
her response was "oh well"....like i was so insignificant....i thought we were close...i found out she really couldnt care less about me or my feelings....
I feel so sick....and whats hard is that i see this girl everyday at work...I feel so hurt that i "ended" the friendship, but were we really friends to begin with???
can a guy have a friendship with a girl he has feelings for???? did i do the right thing???
Damn i feel so lost
There is this girl that i work with, I have known her for about a year...we work closely with each other....From the moment we started talking we became fast friends and after a couple months i started to have feelings for her...
I know she likes me as a person and a friend, but as usual i have been thrown into the "friend zone".....
She has been with some guy off/on for about two years now, and the guy has told her that he does not love her, and cannot accept her other than a friend...but she is STILL hanging on to this guy...
we have become so close as friends now, and she knows i have feelings for her...we talk and talk for hours about our feelings and our lives....I have never in my 38 years wanted someone like i want her....SHE KNOWS this and has even told me that i am a better guy than ANYONE she has ever had in her life...
yet still, i am in this DAMN FRIEND ZONE!!!
the past few months have been a real roller coaster ride...one day we are so close and the next i am so pissed off at her i dont speak for a week or two...Ive poured my heart and soul out to her, given her every ounce of my heart, helped her emotionally, financially and every way you could imagine....
I am very physically attracted to her but it goes much deeper than that.....even though we have never even as much as held hands, i think i love her....is that even possible??????
I have ridden this emotional roller coaster for a year now and last week i just had enough.....
I did the most heart wrenching thing i could do..... I ended my friendship with her...told her that i cannot continue to be her friend and have these feelings for her...It has become even painful when she is talking to me as a "FRIEND"...and having to hear how the guy she is seeing is neglecting her and pushing her away
one of the hardest thing for a guy to do is to be stuck in this friend zone with a girl he as feelings for....
her response was "oh well"....like i was so insignificant....i thought we were close...i found out she really couldnt care less about me or my feelings....
I feel so sick....and whats hard is that i see this girl everyday at work...I feel so hurt that i "ended" the friendship, but were we really friends to begin with???
can a guy have a friendship with a girl he has feelings for???? did i do the right thing???
Damn i feel so lost