Name: Anonymous 2007-09-04 1:04 ID:5vai26RR
It's a joke now.
I pray for the girl. I vision her in my life.
She appears in my life and she is either seeing someone or does not find me attractive.
This is not something that has been going on for just a few months or even a few years. It has been this way for the last 22 years.
I always thought it was my shyness and or my looks, which it is when it comes to the single ones who want someone else. But even the shyest of the shy guys get opportunities that they regret. Women flock to good looking guys, so I have to try hard to prove to her that I am worthy, but if I try too hard, I am accused of not being myself. It's like there is a fine line with guys like me and we can't sway one way or the other, otherwise we lose that pinch's chance of hooking up.
Now I am beyond frustration because I think so positive about when she will appear, and miraculously, she does. Then, a few days later, I either find out she has someone in her life, or that I am COMPLETELY the opposite of what she goes for, thus I am seen as some sort of sweet, funny sideshow.
I've turned everywhere and have found gift boxes with no present inside. I have tried and tried and applied and all I get are laughable results that answer my calling with a twist of evil.
It's not even half the girls are taken. Most of them are, and the ones that aren't, couldn't care less for me.
I don't know how guy do it other than physical attraction because I remain positive and get negative results. The whole 'don't give up' crap I hear is good advice for me when I was 25, maybe 30. I'll be 38 in 6 months and in those 37 years, 22 have been experiencing this pain over and over and over again.
No one has to respond, I just feel like venting since there is nothing else I can do!
I pray for the girl. I vision her in my life.
She appears in my life and she is either seeing someone or does not find me attractive.
This is not something that has been going on for just a few months or even a few years. It has been this way for the last 22 years.
I always thought it was my shyness and or my looks, which it is when it comes to the single ones who want someone else. But even the shyest of the shy guys get opportunities that they regret. Women flock to good looking guys, so I have to try hard to prove to her that I am worthy, but if I try too hard, I am accused of not being myself. It's like there is a fine line with guys like me and we can't sway one way or the other, otherwise we lose that pinch's chance of hooking up.
Now I am beyond frustration because I think so positive about when she will appear, and miraculously, she does. Then, a few days later, I either find out she has someone in her life, or that I am COMPLETELY the opposite of what she goes for, thus I am seen as some sort of sweet, funny sideshow.
I've turned everywhere and have found gift boxes with no present inside. I have tried and tried and applied and all I get are laughable results that answer my calling with a twist of evil.
It's not even half the girls are taken. Most of them are, and the ones that aren't, couldn't care less for me.
I don't know how guy do it other than physical attraction because I remain positive and get negative results. The whole 'don't give up' crap I hear is good advice for me when I was 25, maybe 30. I'll be 38 in 6 months and in those 37 years, 22 have been experiencing this pain over and over and over again.
No one has to respond, I just feel like venting since there is nothing else I can do!