scared that you'll be alone forever?

I am a 20-year-old guy, and I have never dated anyone, or even come close to it. I am normally optimistic when it comes to love, thinking "it's going to happen in its own time, there's no rush," but sometimes you can be optimistic all you want, but then be realistic and just think that maybe you won't ever find "the one", or even a decent girlfriend. i am at that stage right now. I may, I am not at all good looking, thin, or charimastic, and there are tons of guys out there who are just better than me, so I don't see why girls would settle for me. I am just so scared that i will be 50 one day and never been dated befoe.

If you want a girlfriend...

(1) Be somewhat attractive (IE not a huge slob)
-- This doesn't necessarily mean not being a huge fatty but it does help to be thin to average. Dress nicely in your own fashion, don't smell like shit, and wear something interesting. Some sort of prop (IOW, interesting jewelery (not fag stuff))

(2) Don't be a douche nice guy
-- These guys get walked all over. This is the kind of guy that focuses on only one girl and does everything the girl says in hopes of getting vagina. This works much less than it does. You need to talk to girls, give them something to be interested, and let them bite the bait. Don't forget to make them work for it... let them contact you sometimes. Mixing up being an asshole and a really nice guy will keep things interesting for them.

(3) Don't be a one girl guy
-- Dedicating yourself to just one girl will tend to make you smother them. Girls that like this kinda crap are usually too clingy and will wear you down eventually (If you are human). This will also avoid that whole lame situation where you starting thinking "This is the only girl for me" or "She is so perfect". Having multiple possibilities will make it so that you don't care if one falls through... it may also help show girls that you are desirable and make them work for you.

(4) Be confident (This may be the most important thing)
-- Girls love confidence. If you are lacking in several areas... this will make up for it. Having all the other things going for you while having no confidence is also rather useless. Wonder why fat disgusting slobs have hot girlfriends? This shit normally. Another important aspect is to remember that these girls are lucky to have you, and not the other way around.

(5) FUCKING TRY
-- You aren't going to get a girlfriend if you don't start getting out there. Look for situations in which you can comfortably talk to a random person about what they are doing or something happening around them. Don't talk about something completely random or you may find yourself getting a weird stare. You may also want to try and compliment them on things they work on (girls are less likely to respond to things they have naturally) like their hair.

(6) Talk big and be independent
-- Having big goals and being your own person is important. It's important to walk the walk and to be working towards those goals and seem somewhat busy. Girls will respond to this.

(7) If they make you angry or misbehave... (this is while dating)
-- Tell them they are upsetting you (regardless of if you are there yet or not) and that you don't like it. If it's not your fault, then it should have them crawling back to you.

This guide is for girls only... WOMEN don't play these stupid fucking games for the most part; although, some of the same rules still apply. They have less tolerance for assholes and like the douche (non obsessive), independent, and successful guy.