Is losing virginity really a big deal?

Hello all. After reading what some girls had to say about masturbation and such, I thought of the whole breaking the hymen thing in an entirely different way. So I pose the question to you:

Guys: Do you really give a fuck if she broke her hymen herself?

Assuming she hasn't actually slept with anyone, but she plays with herself, do you consider her less desirable in any way? Even a little? In the end I see this as a way to prove to the poor little girls that are scared stupid that some tiny physical piece of flesh is all-important and "sacred."

If there are any girls in the audience, please speak up as well. I'd like to see why you (may) care so much, especially if us guys finally tell you outright that we don't.

Major Tom can you hear me? Major Tom

You're a failure at life if you don't have sex by the age of 10

^QFT

Honestly I'd prefer if she broke her hymen by playing with herself. It means her pussy is stretched out a little bit so that sex won't hurt her so much. Penetration is often painful for any girl who is a virgin, especially if she still has a hymen, she might start bleeding.

Although I'd rather that she hadn't done it with another guy before, but it's not that important.

'Losing your virginity' is performing the act of sex, not just the breaking of the hymen. So even if she had broken it herself, she could still be called a virgin since she had never had a penis in her vagina.