No discretion

http://www.roninwarriorheaven.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=1047

So this lesbian couple (Pathfinder and Sango/Kaze Nika) announced their engagement on a message board. That's fine and dandy, but look at the stupidity that develops from their lack of discretion:

http://www.roninwarriorheaven.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=1082

Pathfinder TOLD HER FATHER that she was going to get married, and naturally, the father freaked and practically disowned her.

It gets better (or worse, depending on your viewpoint):

http://www.roninwarriorheaven.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=1120

You can tell from the first paragraph: BOTH OF THEM ARE BROKE AND UNEMPLOYED. What a fine time to plan a GAY wedding! What a wonderful way to win their families over; dependency and hostility!

http://www.roninwarriorheaven.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=1159

Sango/Kaze Nika posted this topic and, guess what, SHE'S ALSO BITCHING ABOUT NOT HAVING A JOB! WAY TO GO, SANGO! BEING BROKE AND UNEMPLOYED IS A GREAT SITUATION TO MARRY INTO!

Oh, but eventually, the lesbian couple get offered jobs... at SIX FLAGS AMUSEMENT PARK. They certainly do belong there:

http://www.roninwarriorheaven.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=1176

And then, GASP, what's this, Sango broke a promise to keep Pathfinder's secret?! SHOCKING!!!

http://www.roninwarriorheaven.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=1177

Surprise surprise, Pathfinder runs into trouble at work for being a lesbian:

http://www.roninwarriorheaven.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=1204

Now that Sango/Kaze Nika is going to get married, apparently she thought it was a good time to write horridly depressing emo/goth poetry:

http://www.roninwarriorheaven.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=1219

I thought engagements were meant to be a happy time? Pathfinder shared this grim mood in this next thread:

http://www.roninwarriorheaven.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=1210

Ye gods, could it be that Pathfinder and Sango are having a falling out?

http://www.roninwarriorheaven.com/board/viewtopic.php?t=1223

YES! YES IT IS! OH MY GOD, THEY BROKE UP!

Now let us see what we have learned from this delightful trip through a lesbian couple's nightmare of an engagement:

1. BE DISCRETE. DO NOT TELL YOUR HOMOPHOBIC FAMILIES THAT YOU ARE ENGAGED. A better time to tell them would be WHEN YOU ARE ACTUALLY MARRIED. Then they might take you seriously!

2. DO NOT POST YOUR PERSONAL LIFE ON ON THE INTERNET. If you love and respect someone, why in GOD'S NAME are you posting about your engagement ONLINE? Sure, some people would support you out of niceness, but it's also the perfect place for people to sling dirt at you.

3. DO NOT POST ABOUT AN ENGAGEMENT THAT FALLS THROUGH! What the hell were Pathfinder and Sango/Kaze Nika thinking to detail their rise and fall from engagement to not being FRIENDS anymore? If they had no respect before, they certainly do not have any now.

"It is better to be silent and thought a fool, than to speak and remove all doubt."

So please, don't be like those two, and LEAVE THE INTERNET OUT OF YOUR PERSONAL LIFE!

I wants lots and lots of some delectable pot!

Marijuana MUST be legalized.